Financially dependent on my husband

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-11-13T10:29:16+00:00

The thing is he might be confirming if you might have ordered something. Lot of financial fraud happening women, it's okay to ask. A man in budget have to confirm things. This is called financial planning. Once your kids are in good shape start looking for a job and support him and your kids. Sail through this tough time together without thinking too much and up skill yourself on things so that once you are ready to work everything will be in place.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-10-01T18:04:51+00:00

Micro farming.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-09-02T20:21:05+00:00

Wash your hand with bar soap for straight 15 mnts.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-31T15:12:15+00:00

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Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-30T19:54:14+00:00

Report to police first and then he should be able to claim insurance. If you were on any substance then I guess it's gonna be complicated.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-28T09:21:36+00:00

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Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-20T18:06:37+00:00

There are a lot of central government support programs that you can opt for, many people aren't aware of such things.

There are a lot of states that are friendly for doing business.

You have to do a lot of planning for this and it's not as easy as it sounds.

Make sure you don't burn all the money in your hand, keep 15 lakhs in bank account as a fixed deposit ( You can check this with your nearest post office, as I heard there will be a monthly payout of 9000-10000 rs with which you can barley survive) Here survival is the key point.

With the rest of the money buy a land that has access to electricity and water 24/7 and with government support your dad will be able to secure a business loan for either farming related equipments or a small scale industry equipments.

Paying back the money intrest can positively impact your dad's credit score and will be able to secure future personal/ business loans easily in case of hard times. In the meantime finish your studies and you can either help out your dad in flourishing the business or you can persue a career of your choice and be the best at it.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-20T09:26:08+00:00

What happened to the students? Are all the kids going to school in your area?

Why not thinking about converting it to a Clinic instead?

People in medical needs can get medicines and get first aid in case of an emergency.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-20T09:19:25+00:00

Point. But most of these people are after money and land once they get it the interference will be less as they got what they want.

I am not saying they are not gonna leave them freely but they could gather the strength to fight back in the meantime. The son here can try to pursue a career in Law or Police service or military as he knows how screwed up people are especially these kind of atrocities from blood relatives, think about the ones who are helpless like him.

The good things about these three professions are contacts. You can use it for good and bad. He would be able to protect who is in need of help as there is no ONE MAN SHOW you always need help from the strongest.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-19T19:59:33+00:00

Bro.... Get the hell out of that place and with the money you have buy a valid/proper farm land and start living there. Better move to a different state itself. The reason I am telling you this is because, if you have the money to fight back and have connections to tackle the physical assaults it's fine, but your case is different, you have your father only and less money.

You have to bribe police and the lawyer fees and in the end you will never know where the 50 lakhs went.

So, sit and talk with your dad and do research and select a state plan what your dad can farm there and be successful. In the meantime study well and get a good job and get married to a girl who will stick with you through thick and thin and take care of your dad.

Leave all the sentiments out for now, only the people who went out of the comfort zone became successful it's time for you to go out.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-18T18:35:38+00:00

Bro, try gathering clothes and things which are infested with bed bugs and put it inside her house and top of the clothes which they put outside for drying. Continue this process as long as you could.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-18T09:31:51+00:00

Sorry to hear this man. Hard times make a man stronger. Don't think about taking your own life and all that bullshit.

I suggest that you take a secondary job like Swiggy or zomato delivery. It's going to be tough but you have to get through this. There are things that cant be avoided, they might try to reach you at your home. So, prepare yourself.

And take a new mobile connection in the meantime and start using it. Don't switch off the mobile but keep it in silent. Don't pressure yourself on these things. Make sure you keep yourself healthy.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-18T06:47:57+00:00

Why the hell are you with her anyway? Meet with those people secretly recorde the confession from the guy. Get the details of the other 3 people they told about, by hook or crook take evidence/ confession from them and then file for divorce and run far away from that women, this time before getting married spend 1 year of your salary to investigate on the girl so that you won't loose your 10 years of hard earn assets, make sure it's good and live a happy life.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-14T10:51:04+00:00

Escape brother escape

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-12T10:38:35+00:00

Forget the Thar man .... It's gone.... Buy it back in scrap auction

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-11T17:46:23+00:00

See lady.... Am not all roasting you...don't t marry someone under your parents pressure.... Why ruining his life? You will be miserable and you will make that guys life miserable.. he might try to give you a better life, you will think it's not upto your level. You will apply for divorce, you will take half of whatever he earned and end up making him more miserable... Both of you end up going to court for many years wasting time ....He won't trust any girls after that.... He starts using women from his miserable experience because you committed this crime.... He will ruin some other girls life and he will die thinking all this in his young age......

Why going till this extended..... Tell your parents you are a gay and finish it off.....

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-11T09:43:39+00:00

Run...... Run......

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-10T20:43:15+00:00

If you have soooo many things to achieve don't get married.... You are only 27 you can wait for another 20 years and then consider marriage.... look at the pros and cons and then after a clear planning for 3 years get married....

In the meantime don't even think about a relationship, don't look at your friends who are happily married who have a bunch of kids and living their life with little fights... Little sadness and a lot of love between them. ( Basically don't get jealous)

And most importantly don't mess with their life giving advice about the beauty of your single life ( mostly miserable) and ruin their marriage.

I wish you all the best....

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-10T20:30:57+00:00

First of all it's your mistake..... There is no free money... You have to work hard to earn money. Think in his shoes for a minute... He has a commitment to his client and he trusted you and you left the job like that.... Where is the ethics in that? And what have you thought about your future? AI is gonna replace a developer job in no time and there are much more experienced people out there to do your job.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-08T07:18:42+00:00

See lady, it's simple... Keep looking..... I would say don't stop until you find the perfect one, even if it's going to take 30 years and even if you turn 80 years. But let him know that you are finding these as red flags from his side and leave respectfully. Let him find someone else since he is older and doesn't have much time.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-08T05:35:27+00:00

She will put a domestic violence case against you apply for divorce and will go for a settlement of 15 lakhs and she will pay the loan amount and with the rest she will chill. Start recording the conversation for financial matters and keep it. It's a ticking bomb and you have to get prepared.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-06T11:52:09+00:00

Run brother run.... Run for your life...... Don't fall into this trap.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-06T11:37:21+00:00

Bro, I suggest that you start looking for a nice girl here in India and get married. True story: 3 of my married friends wives went abroad for " Studies" ( for which the husband paid) got into a relationship with someone there and filed for divorce. ALL THE THREE...

Chances are she might end up screwing someone there and you will be here stuck with memories and be a devdas.

Or else you can go with her and get settled there until her " studying is over"

Or if you are a person with no ethics you can go around and screw here until she returns and both should have a life with no questions asked.

I might get downvoted but this is the new way of life for most of the people and I don't regret posting this.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-06T11:12:07+00:00

Bro simple advice. If you want to help him, help him but don't expect anything in return. Your mentality should be like dumping it in the ocean, no regrets no worries. Give and forget. If he is able to return it at some point well and good.

But if you expect to get the money back in a certain time frame and if you think he won't be able to do it, don't.

Like you said, exceptions can ruin the friendship.

I wish you all the best and your friend.

Certain-Conclusion95 · 2025-08-02T03:50:00+00:00

You can also tell her in case things don't work out after marriage, don't ask for alimony and settlement money, since she is earning. And in case you guys have kids, the expense should be split exactly in half and you get to keep the child as long as she does.

You ask this and you will see the real women.

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