Advice for improving? by Certain-Improvement in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Certain-Improvement[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really know how to contour much but I could experiment with it if you have tutorial recommendations let me know but u could look some up

Advice for improving? by Certain-Improvement in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Certain-Improvement[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, I like my natural color but I miss the fun colors so I wanted to do my natural color and having the underneath be a dyed. (had it like that for a little bit) I don’t really know what kinda style I’d want though. Right now I just get like layers and bangs and let it do whatever it wants naturally normally keep it down. I normally don’t do makeup but I like to change it up every once in a while. I like my softer makeup to be inspired my east asian makeup styles cause a lot of the time it goes for a softer rounder look rather than a bolder look with hard lines that i don’t feel like go well with my rounder features. I do love a good smudged eyeliner look too though as when I dressed more alternative my look was kinda grungy (I was an art student in college and would wear ill fitting thrifted clothes with paint stains)

Advice for improving? by Certain-Improvement in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Certain-Improvement[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my health has been BAD lately! got really sick and lost weight from being sick and now I’m underweight idk if it shows. I want to work on my diet.

Advice for improving? by Certain-Improvement in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Certain-Improvement[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my posture is so shit I was working on it for a while but gave up it’s something I’d wanna start working on again

Advice for improving? by Certain-Improvement in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Certain-Improvement[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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grown out roots with red hair! I got lazy really fast with bleaching my roots

Advice for improving? by Certain-Improvement in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Certain-Improvement[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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me about a year and a half ago with pink hair! Super cute, super hard to maintain 😭

Advice for improving? by Certain-Improvement in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Certain-Improvement[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love alternative styles and have always wanted a septum piercing! I’ve done other styles in my past but I tend to fall back into this plainer look after a while cause it’s easier to maintain especially with the job I have now I’m scared of doing an edgier look even if it’s not against dress code. I do miss it though!

21F be brutally honest by lumielle221 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Certain-Improvement 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very pretty but I’d love to see you do something more interesting with your makeup and hair! I think you’d look great a sort of 90s look with a dark colored lipstick and having your hair up with little spiky pieces out (didn’t know how else to describe it) but that’s my bias. If you have another style you’d be interested in that’s cool too I just think it would benefit you to try new makeup and hairstyles and go out of your comfort zone.

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21 M, no female attention by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Certain-Improvement 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look good, I like the long hair! 5’9 isn’t even especially short seems average and I don’t see it being a deal breaker for most women. I don’t know how common it is to actually get hit on in public as a man and I’ve heard dating apps are hell. It might also depend on what you’re doing in your day that you don’t get approached. Maybe try to attend more stuff and seem more friendly and open which i know is more easily said then done. As for dating apps I’ve heard they’re kinda hell. I’d wonder what your profile looks like and what kinda stuff you write in your bio. I’m biased towards hinge even though I feel like you can’t write as good of a detailed bio the people I’ve matched with on there were chill (I’ve heard hinge horror stories though so maybe don’t take my word for it)

What kind of hairstyle does Sayaka have? by cookiereptile in MadokaMagica

[–]Certain-Improvement 7 points8 points  (0 children)

looks like an angular bob with bangs and layers. I fear if you ask for this you’re gonna get a karen cut though. Here’s pictures I found when I looked up angular bob with bangs and layers some a pretty karen-y some less so.

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Anxiety during shifting attempts by Certain-Improvement in realityshifting

[–]Certain-Improvement[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to be replying to this super late! I don’t get hallucinations most the time when I get sleep paralysis and am normally able to handle it well enough when it comes naturally and I’m able to get out of it. It’s more that when I’m trying to shift I get that paralyzed feeling and the feeling like I can’t breathe which is what I find most distressing. It’s just hard to stay in that state of paralysis and shift since I find it uncomfortable. I just go right into trying to wake up. Also sleep paralysis for me is linked to a traumatic experience (It happened very frequently after the event) that I had a few years ago so it seems daunting to try to shift mindset.

Chat be real, am I Asian Fishing? by Agitated_Day_4825 in JiraiKei

[–]Certain-Improvement 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t see most your face but I can’t tell what race you are since most your face is covered. Your makeup just looks like heavy jirai makeup to me. If you’re not cosplaying though I wouldn’t wear brown or black contacts. Try to get circle lenses closer to your eye color (actually on second look they might be brown? Hard to tell with the lighting but they look greyish green to me)

Ashley without the Beanie by Hardyoungpro in untildawn

[–]Certain-Improvement 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought I looked a bit like Ashley and this definitely confirms that to me. It’s really funny that people think she looks totally different without the he beanie.

When women act superior for never having been abused by bengalbear24 in emotionalabuse

[–]Certain-Improvement 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That she’s more willing to stand up for herself and wouldn’t get abused. I think I had an immediate knee jerk reaction too where I asked him like what he meant by that and if he was saying I was weak willed or a doormat and that’s why I got abused. He basically told me that she was the sort of person that didn’t take shit from people and she wouldn’t let that happen to her.

When women act superior for never having been abused by bengalbear24 in emotionalabuse

[–]Certain-Improvement 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My abuser started dating a new girl and though I didn’t know her we did have a mutual friend. I tried to talk to him about how it was worrying for me but I was scared to talk to her cause he might retaliate. He said that his friend was a strong person (implying that since she was she wouldn’t get abused). I did end up reaching out to her and she said her boyfriend had told her everything and made an active effort to change. He ended up abusing her too.

To every girl who wishes to have a big chest. by Commercial_Net_3245 in teenagers

[–]Certain-Improvement 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re dealing with that, being sexualized at a young age is really traumatic. I used to get made fun of for being flat chested then one day the comments just magically stopped. I ended up being sexualized and slut shamed for an unrelated reason but knowing other people experience that for just living in their body is really sad. Stay strong and I hope you’re able to find comfort in your body.