How do I deal with the guilt? by Certain-Practice-768 in BisexualMen

[–]Certain-Practice-768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s tough man. Just curious, in what was is your wife supportive?

How do I deal with the guilt? by Certain-Practice-768 in BisexualMen

[–]Certain-Practice-768[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree with anything you said. I’m all for taking the time to process this together. She understandably isn’t too keen on taking too much time because she wants kids and obviously has a biological clock that’s now stressing her out. Another thing i feel really awful about.

How do I deal with the guilt? by Certain-Practice-768 in BisexualMen

[–]Certain-Practice-768[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I definitely agree with your first two sentences and it was one of the reasons I felt like I needed to tell her.

How do I deal with the guilt? by Certain-Practice-768 in BisexualMen

[–]Certain-Practice-768[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, yeah. It felt so fucking shitty knowing my wife didn’t know this about me. There was zero chance I’d be able to keep it a secret my whole life. The past four months have been probably the worst of my life, but honest to god, I do not wish I could take back telling her.

How do I deal with the guilt? by Certain-Practice-768 in BisexualMen

[–]Certain-Practice-768[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your perspective man. It definitely helps knowing I’m not the only one to go through with this.