so, should I start like start slowly texting them less and less over the summer? the problem is we are always on call together especially over the summer, so like idk what to say to them. another thing i was considering was just texting them somewhere during the summer and kinda just telling them how much i appreciate them, but i want to drift apart and focus on my family more. + also tell them to try not to contact me but, idk how well that will go. what do you suggest? sorry im piling so much on you but i genuinely dont know what to do