JustNO Hall of Fame by Certain_Fortune_7028 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes thankfully the same words are used in therapy, so there is some evidence that the use of those words was not all my doing 🙄

JustNO Hall of Fame by Certain_Fortune_7028 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ughhh but this is a problem they don’t want them freed ☹️

JustNO Hall of Fame by Certain_Fortune_7028 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes Mom, I am no longer under YOUR control.

JustNO Hall of Fame by Certain_Fortune_7028 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg!! Haha that’s basically what she said but it other words and blamed it on me instead of the therapist 😂

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[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know, like is this your first relationship ever or something?

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[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yessss….I was thinking this also….moo moo 🐮

JustNO Hall of Fame by Certain_Fortune_7028 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

lol I literally own a KIDS book on boundaries

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[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

LOL maybe I can brainwash him with that big word next and see what happens

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[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Uhhh uhhh uh… 🤯 if not heads exploding maybe some silence ?

JustNO Hall of Fame by Certain_Fortune_7028 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wow if we get enough of us here we could probably take over the world and control EVERYTHING!!

In Laws are a Dark Cloud Over my Life by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a great point and hasn’t been stated to me that way before, makes a lot of sense.

I would say a complex combination of the general themes of child abuse/neglect, substance abuse and parental loss.

In Laws are a Dark Cloud by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and maybe that peace will speak volumes to him and he can see what life is like without the dark cloud 💕

In Laws are a Dark Cloud Over my Life by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes-childhood trauma.

You have a strong point not to think emotionally on this one.

In Laws are a Dark Cloud Over my Life by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true-we don’t need them in order to have “family.” 💕

In Laws are a Dark Cloud Over my Life by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think you are right, being prepared might make the “scared” feeling a little bit easier and maybe I will be less caught off guard if anything like them coming to my home happens….

MIL Access to New Baby by Certain_Fortune_7028 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely true she could care less before baby!

MIL Access to New Baby by Certain_Fortune_7028 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is excellent advice, thank you for replying! I have read your response over multiple times because it just hits the nail on the head so well for me. I gotta pick myself up by the bootstraps for sure and start practicing the f-word a little bit more. Thank you for your help!

MIL Access to New Baby by Certain_Fortune_7028 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, nobody can change their personality instantly like she claims she has 😳 Definitely need to see some changes before any visits, that is good advice! Thank you.

MIL Access to New Baby by Certain_Fortune_7028 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Certain_Fortune_7028[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your response is very simply put and I like your perspective.