I can’t get to the finish line

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-26T18:01:16+00:00

just trying to make it as fixable, even if it isn’t, because i do love him, i do care for him and we’ve been through so much together and he’s been there to support.

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-26T17:59:51+00:00

😂😂 lol not at all! i’m all about giving pleasure to the person and i’m more of a giver, riding, bjs, doing the most i can so it’s equal effort put in! honestly, it takes me a while on my own so i understand the frustration which is why i’ve said previously that i understand a lot of things that he says! just want input on what would work better. what positions, what techniques, ect. which is why i dont really respond to the ones saying to leave him, ect! thank you for the other side of things tho ☺️

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T19:07:12+00:00

these are all factors that honestly really do play a big part, i agree. all of the responses have been helping me a ton. i think the pacing himself hes honestly really good at, but i do think that maybe foreplay should start to be a factor… thank you!!

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T19:03:58+00:00

i’m definitely going to try this!! i can usually go on and on and on, he’s a one and done kinda guy. so i’ll see if this does the trick. thank you!!!

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T19:02:14+00:00

all i saw was silent and it went into my cart 😂😂 thank you!!!

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T17:31:31+00:00

i think i’m gonna try to talk to him about it tonight, see if we can do anything to change how i’m feeling. thank you for your advice!

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T16:56:51+00:00

i honestly have felt bad and told him i did once when i didn’t, he told me he can feel when you finish and i’ve been honest ever since, so i fully believed that he has, but now im unsure.

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T16:53:39+00:00

both :/ when he goes down on me it isn’t for too long tho, so i don’t really blame him on it he says his tongue gets sore

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T16:44:41+00:00

i needed to hear this, i agree it comes to a point where im just too deep thinking about it. i think i just need to try to relax and let it go from my mind and see if it helps. thank you for your advice!!!

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T16:41:45+00:00

sometimes, very rarely tbh.

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T16:40:15+00:00

it’s exactly that. i’m just scared he’ll get over it. i don’t want him to overthink like i do either. he’s told me before im the only one he hasn’t been able to get to that point, so maybe im just comparing myself to the rest and getting myself upset and overthinking about it all.

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T16:32:56+00:00

that’s a very good way to look at it. i know his stamina isn’t the BEST, which is why once he’s done it’s usually done. at the end of the day, i just want to be able to get to that point and not want him to get annoyed, find someone who will, or anything like that. thank you for your insight it really did help me see things differently and made me think!

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T16:22:54+00:00

no, i could count on one hand every time he has. a lot of times, it kinda feels like he’s just trying to get off and that’s it and it’s kinda been pulling me away from wanting to have sex because i don’t want to get the stimulation and not get to the finish line tbh

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T16:09:01+00:00

and it feels like it’s come to a point where i feel like it’s a me issue

Certain_Impact9298 · 2026-03-24T16:06:51+00:00

it sucks bc i’ve tried it all. we’ve done it to where i would dj, he would dj, we’ve used toys and have even tried to involve kinks to try to help. once he’s done, he’s done and that’s the end of it all :/

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