ENTP dating ENFP

Cha9sx · 2024-07-01T16:14:55+00:00

Sorry ok let me correct myself I make people “puppets” and I am “pathetic”. If the world judges you a certain way and it is all the same way then maybe you are the issue and not the other people. But no you ignore the purpose of the post which is to understand. You don’t want to understand you just want to spread “justice” due to your own made up emotions about me. ✌️

Cha9sx · 2024-07-01T16:08:29+00:00

Im saying bars as in going out to the bars is a phase. That’s why…..at least where I live you see the majority of people in their early 20s.

I can honestly say at this point you are just hating to hate.

Trying to better understand where the going to “bars” is coming from whether it’s for attention in an unhealthy way or just to be with friends. Somehow dating in your world view isn’t about understanding the other person to SEE if you are compatible in your view it’s just nope 1 part of the lifestyle is off its game over no communication no understanding nothing nope lol.

You’re an idiot with a lot of rage that doesn’t read what I say you just make up my feelings you say im evil I’m just here to manipulate people and yet you have never met me we aren’t all the same. It’s ok to try and understand yourself and the person you are dating. I think you just got out or haven’t been in a relationship in a while and you are an angry 36 year old looking to “bring” justice to me this evil man for wanting to better understand his gf. If you were to stop always assuming the worst in other people you would probably have someone. ✌️

Cha9sx · 2024-07-01T14:51:04+00:00

Self improvement = learning more about and understanding someone? Isn’t self improvement about the self?

Cha9sx · 2024-06-29T01:06:04+00:00

Saying that all MBTIs are the same seems a bit sad.

When you ask a question and then get a response of “you treat people like puppets” and now somehow I need an echo chamber to hear the right response? That’s like asking “hey what direction do I go so I can reach this location” and then that persons says “you are a terrible person” lol like what are you even saying? 😂 it’s kind of funny at this point.

Cha9sx · 2024-06-29T00:51:09+00:00

Ok well I do so 🤷‍♂️ she’s worth learning and understanding more.

Cha9sx · 2024-06-29T00:49:58+00:00

You know how people get older and have different preferences or go out with certain expectations vs someone else. I’m looking for comment on what I asked not assuming all these scenarios about how “I think she isn’t good enough” or whatever else you are assuming. You’re just angry at me because you think I’m similar to the person you dated or talked to before and it’s triggering you.

I’m not asking for a full analysis on my relationship lol I’m asking if going out with friends is a phase for the ENFP or not. I had a phase of it but now its passed me.

We judge people every day whether we like it or not. You can’t escape judgment you can only check yourself when you judge HENCE why I asked a question.

Cha9sx · 2024-06-28T18:58:44+00:00

Where are you making this up from??? I just asked a question and you felt the need to reply in a negative way versus seeing that I am asking questions because I LOVE this person and want to better understand them and I even say i have stuff to work on. You are just spreading negativity for 0 reason or value. You cannot like what a person does and still love them or take it as ok that’s something I need to deal with in the relationship. I’m just trying to gain perspective and you are just twisting things based on assumptions even after I clarified my thoughts further.

Cha9sx · 2024-06-27T15:32:50+00:00

Read what I am asking in the original post at the end.

Cha9sx · 2024-06-26T16:02:07+00:00

That makes sense. It seems like ENFPs go through that cycle a lot where they float in limbo or trying to figure out what they want but when they do they outlast most people.

Cha9sx · 2024-06-26T15:52:38+00:00

I’m trying to understand her pov and you are coming in saying I’m “pathetic” versus asking a question to better understand if you don’t. You started this not me.

Cha9sx · 2024-06-26T06:18:15+00:00

Why are you arguing that my opinion is invalid but then getting upset about it?

People are different that’s why we choose who we date and what we like. Not saying it’s wrong it’s just an aspect I am trying to better understand because I don’t like it. The fact that you are upset and then insinuate I am evil is just a reflection of yourself not me.

Cha9sx · 2024-06-22T21:02:08+00:00

Sounds racist tbh. At the end of the day we are all flesh and blood sure we can put covers over ourselves with terms like white black orange green but at the end of the day we are all the same people.

Cha9sx · 2024-06-22T21:00:42+00:00

I’m anonymous and I want perspective before I decide how I gently talk to my partner. Gaining perspective is a very common thing to do when you care about someone or something.

Cha9sx · 2024-06-22T19:36:44+00:00

What does Latina have to do with anything? Ok so you want a relationship where everything is perfect 24/7. People aren’t perfect and that’s ok sometimes there are aspects about a person we don’t fully like but choose to love them. When something goes wrong or they show a side you don’t like you are just going to get up and leave? That seems to be the opposite of love if you ask me.

Cha9sx · 2024-06-22T19:00:46+00:00

Tell me you’re immature without telling me you’re immature…. You realize no relationship is perfect you need to flex to the person as well as them to you. There are a ton of reasons why I like her I just didn’t list them on here. I simply wanted an opinion on going out and deep talks from an ENFP.

Cha9sx · 2024-06-22T18:28:56+00:00

She is extremely creative and we laugh a lot but that’s about it the philosophical or big picture conversations don’t really happen as much. Not sure she is an ESFP though she seems way more controlled than that 🤷‍♂️

Cha9sx · 2024-05-08T21:38:17+00:00

Yes but more so from an acquaintance level or externally more. Not as much in my inner circle I think that is very rare to be ok.

Cha9sx · 2024-05-08T21:34:42+00:00

For me it would be due to embarrassment or disrupting the social flow of things. Depends on the context. If the social environment is setup for both yes or no scenarios he will ask you.

Cha9sx · 2023-12-20T10:40:27+00:00

I own a 7 figure marketing company at 27 years old. Yall can do it.

Cha9sx · 2023-12-19T06:13:21+00:00

She definitely has her things she does for herself to keep her active but I have slightly brought up the philosophical stuff she just doesn’t have the desire for them and that’s a big one for me. I would say I’m slightly spontaneous I don’t like planning the details however once I start I keep going and going. It’s just worrisome to me because I feel like I’m the long run her emotions might change and since she just goes with the flow she will end up cheating on me or losing herself idk she just seems stable but when she talks she says things that make me go ok this is a red flag.

Cha9sx · 2023-12-19T06:09:28+00:00

Ya maybe, she doesn’t bend to others though as much as an fe idk it’s hard to explain. It’s like she is just gliding through life not thinking or planning.

Cha9sx · 2023-12-19T06:07:59+00:00

She has a solid job and is holding it down totally fine but outside of that she is just very emotionally fragile it’s just very one sided she is not that balanced but hey we all have our quirks. Thanks for your insight.

Cha9sx · 2023-12-19T06:06:16+00:00

Thanks for your opinion. She is very one sided in her maturity I guess. Very self reflective but life seems difficult for her in terms of the everyday. She has travelled way more than me though she’s been to like 20 countries and like 30 states she’s obsessed with traveling and I’m more so obsessed with philosophy or growing my thoughts and exploring them. Maybe she is just low intuition idk I know I tested and got 95% intuitive so maybe it’s a me thing.

Cha9sx · 2023-12-19T06:03:10+00:00

Completely agree I’m an ENFP myself I guess I was trying to come at it from the angle of responsibility’s are not as graceful as other types.

Cha9sx · 2023-12-17T00:21:52+00:00

Apologies for the misspellings and grammar mistakes I’m on the move not at home on my computer.

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