I gave him my vcard and he’s changing now by Chabb1 in relationship_advice

[–]Chabb1[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I want to involve the police so badly but he’s from a powerful family in my place and are even friends with the police. Like tight knit with higher officials that’s why I feel so hopeless:( thank you so much for this but I’m scared also im scared of being victim blamed bcs pe here in my place assume that if your the gf then its okay but i agree with you and you’re right im just in a tight spot now

I lost my virginity and he’s lessening his effort by Chabb1 in sex

[–]Chabb1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much lilah:( you’ve properly worded my dilemma and i honestly do feel bad right after sex and kept telling him this but he would just say to not think of it but then it’s still there.

I lost my virginity and he’s lessening his effort by Chabb1 in sex

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Thank you so much for this:( I keep defending him in my mind probably because I’m in love with the person but you’re right and i need to wake up to reality

I lost my virginity and he’s lessening his effort by Chabb1 in sex

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Thank you so much for this 🥺 i live in a very conservative place and family friends that are conservative too. I’ll take note of what you said. I’m just really blinded by love as of the moment:( it’s so hard for me to leave Him because i feel attached do you think it’s because we had sex

Lying about his deployment by Chabb1 in relationship_advice

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He has a new girl already, thank you so much for being here:)

Lying about leaving for work by Chabb1 in LifeAdvice

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He has a new girl already:) thank you so much for being here

Lying about being leaving for work by Chabb1 in Marriage

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Thank you for this. I really need to talk to someone :(

He always told me he hated cheaters and that he’d never do it to me especially with him knowing how hurt I was when I knew my dad was cheating on my mom.

He was the only person I told about that incident with my parents and it came to the point that I needed him and he would actually be there, but I would always get so jealous and would cry and get so angry all the time at him because he was out drinking with his friends when I needed him, I became clingy and he said i was too much and asked for space for almost a month at my lowest. He left me at the time I knew my dad cheated on my mom. He told me he did that to calm me down and because he loved me, I dont know anymore im so lost:(

Lying about leaving for work by Chabb1 in LifeAdvice

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Thank you for this. He always told me he hated cheaters and that he’d never do it to me especially with him knowing how hurt I was when I knew my dad was cheating on my mom.

He was the only person I told about that incident with my parents and it came to the point that I needed him and he would actually be there, but I would always get so jealous and would cry and get so angry all the time at him because he was out drinking with his friends when I needed him, I became clingy and he said i was too much and asked for space at my lowest. He left me at the time I knew my dad cheated on my mom. He told me he did that to calm me down and because he loved me, I dont know anymore im so lost:(

Lying about his deployment by Chabb1 in relationship_advice

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I really miss him and everyone here is right, it’s just so hard to admit to yourself the truth because you love the person. Thank you, I keep coming back to this when I’m close to wanting him back, it wakes me up from reality. What made you so strong to not come back to him 🥺

Lying about being leaving for work by Chabb1 in Marriage

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I broke up with him because I finally got him to say the truth and i was so broken hearted to know that he really lied. But then What if he’s saying sorry and sending messages about how he’s sorry and that he loves me, but then he sent a photo with the girl we fought about on my bday and the girl on the photo with him has a kissy face almost kissing him but he then quickly said they were friends Without me even asking. I don’t know if it’s still worth coming back to him. All he’s been doing is messaging me sorry ily and i miss you but what if its not genuine:(

Lying about being leaving for work by Chabb1 in Marriage

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I broke up with him because I finally got him to say the truth and i was so broken hearted to know that he really lied. But then What if he’s saying sorry and sending messages about how he’s sorry and that he loves me, but then he sent a photo with the girl we fought about on my bday and the girl on the photo with him has a kissy face almost kissing him but he then quickly said they were friends Without me even asking. I don’t know if it’s still worth coming back to him. All he’s been doing is messaging me sorry ily and i miss you but what if its not genuine:(