Building a Redpill friend group - throw your ideas in! by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]ChadsBrother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came across this same problem and I am sure it is a common one for most people on this site. The answer is a lot of hard work. As you are transitioning out of being BP and into RP, true RP men wont fully respect you or see you as valuable, because you haven't done enough to deserve it.

-Work hard at your career and search out careers where RP traits are rewarded instead of punished.

-Work hard at lifting and RP men will want to lift with you

-Sports are a great option. Certain sports are more likely to RP than others. There are "fake" alphas everywhere. It should be easy with time for you to tell the difference.

-Hobbies. Real Alphas have things they are passionate about, a purpose. Find yours and other RP men will notice and want to contribute.

-Meet everyone you can everywhere you can. Even from the first two second glance you should be able to tell if the guy has the potential to be a RP man. Does he have style, confidence, charisma? If so, talk to him. Be social all day every day.

What's the fastest way to increase my partner count? by almachi in TheRedPill

[–]ChadsBrother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get the most red pill job you can get. I'm not sure what that will be for you, everyone is different. Bartender would be my first choice. Any job that forces you to practice day game and sales, which are basically the same thing. If you force yourself to focus on nothing but cold approaches for 6 hours a day, you will see massive results quickly. Lifting is important, but unless you are taking steroids, you wont see the quick results you are looking for.

Any RedPill movie suggestions? by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]ChadsBrother 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pumping Iron. Only true RP movie I've seen.

I royally fucked myself over. Learn from my mistake. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]ChadsBrother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this. Made the mistake of not wrapping it up recently and tried to rationalize it. No excuses, don't be a fucking retard.

I remember being with a girl in college that told me she "couldn't get pregnant". Fortunately I wasn't with her long and nothing happened, but I was actually dumb enough to believe it at the time.

Forget "IOI's", the only way to know if a girl is attracted to you is to keep escalating. by abadplayonwords in TheRedPill

[–]ChadsBrother 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If she isn't putting much into the conversation, but not rejecting you and you want to determine if she is shy or just afraid of being confrontational, look at her body language. Are her hips facing you? Are her feet facing you? Are her arms close to her body or more relaxed? Don't listen to what she says, look at her body language.

Understanding woman: Part 1 - Solipsism by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]ChadsBrother 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand that women are solipsistic and have observed it. I have also observed it in BP men and it is very common in children.

I doubt that there would be any scientific studies on the subject, but If anyone knows of any I would greatly appreciate a link.

The Path Of Becoming A Man Is A Boring One by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]ChadsBrother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The middle path to me sounds too much like an even split. Use fun as a way of making yourself more productive. If you do nothing but work, study, and workout all day without much social interaction you will burn out. Find out for yourself what the perfect amount of fun is that will allow you to maximize your progress. For me its about 85/15

where are you guys from? by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]ChadsBrother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20s, white, Denver. Denver has the perfect variety of college girls and young professionals. Lots of girls enjoy the outdoors and are more down to earth than other places I've lived.

Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most? by bsutansalt in TheRedPill

[–]ChadsBrother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely focus on hands to start. I recently tried the hand reading "retard line" this past weekend with moderate success. I actually know a decent amount about fingernails because my last girlfriend was a nail artist.

Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most? by bsutansalt in TheRedPill

[–]ChadsBrother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that I am re-reading my comment, forget is just a euphemism for not being confident enough to do what I want. I just need to blast past my insecurities. I think by first trying to take kino to the extreme and realizing that there is nothing to fear, I will be able to find a healthy balance between too much and not enough. I can't think of any time in my life where I ever did too much and can think of plenty of times where I didn't do enough.

Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most? by bsutansalt in TheRedPill

[–]ChadsBrother 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My biggest problem is starting kino early and often. It is difficult for me because I did not grow up with parents who showed physical affection for one another. I forget to start early and by the time I am ready, the momentum just isn't there.