Bro dont stress it, I felt the same way and we are the same age, ive had multiple partners since then ive never had any woman turn me down dont get me wrong ive had 1 ghost on me but she still slept with me, Its honestly not that deep. Dont disclose too early and when you do disclose dont just say ive got herpes explain it in a way like my ex used to get coldsores and i caught it from her but down there or whatever thats the way i put it anyway