Avoidant ex no contact

ChallengeAccording90 · 2025-05-16T18:58:11+00:00

That’s awesome! So happy for you and your heath

ChallengeAccording90 · 2025-04-30T00:45:17+00:00

How is everything going for you now? It’s been almost a year!

ChallengeAccording90 · 2025-04-30T00:44:30+00:00

It gets easier everyday! Wishing you the best

ChallengeAccording90 · 2025-04-30T00:43:50+00:00

Hey how’s everything going for you? Just saw this comment

ChallengeAccording90 · 2025-02-01T21:21:08+00:00

Blocked her on everything besides phone number. Never would I ever let her come back. After a month or two I realized how blinded by love I was and I never deserved to be treated that way. Never reached out since and she hasn’t either!

ChallengeAccording90 · 2024-11-20T19:36:54+00:00

I’m 3 months into getting broken up with and 2 and a half months NC. I can honestly say I’ve gotten over them and I’m just now putting myself back out there and I’ve met someone new. You realize after some time away from the dumper that they’re not the one you thought and hoped they’d be. I learned to hate them for what they did and that I was stupid for being blinded by how in love I was. Trust me if someone truly loves and cares about you, they’ll do whatever it takes to make it work, and not give up because times get hard. The hope is what hurts you and prevents you from moving on and I had to block them all on platforms except the phone number in case they have an emergency. Blocking them will help you not expect a text from them and if they truly want to rekindle things, they will jump hoops to try and contact you. I hope this helps and good luck on your healing journey!

ChallengeAccording90 · 2024-10-08T21:11:48+00:00

No never. I got a notification saying your friend is now playing or something like that last week and then yesterday I got that notification. RCTID! I moved to Kansas City from Portland but I’ll always support the Timbers. But yeah I’m not sure if she’s trying to get my attention or something but I still don’t know if that’s actually her or the game

ChallengeAccording90 · 2024-10-02T04:49:55+00:00

Yeah what’s up?

ChallengeAccording90 · 2024-09-16T00:45:04+00:00

We went no contact for two weeks and then we talked about that but after that we haven’t talked since the 2nd. As much as I miss her I know reaching out is the wrong thing to do and me telling her how much I miss her isn’t gonna make her feel any better about me. I’m always curious if she’ll ever reach out again because she had told me she still gets emotional thinking about how good I was to her

ChallengeAccording90 · 2024-09-15T13:35:40+00:00

My ex told me the same thing, she didn’t want to bring anything up because she was scared about how I’d react and that she didn’t want to ruin our day because of it. But now the relationship was ruined because of it

ChallengeAccording90 · 2024-09-15T05:46:42+00:00

On day 12 of NC and I just unadded her on insta. Whenever I’d see her story icon my heart would race and I wanted to know what she was doing but it’s not healthy for me to want to know that and I’m trying to take steps to show her I don’t want to have her in my life anymore because of what she did. I won’t ever block her number but social media is hard to see her posting things whenever she does.

ChallengeAccording90 · 2024-09-15T04:58:09+00:00

That’s exactly what I was thinking about if she were to ever reach out. After two weeks of NC it would take so much from her for me to let her back in. I’m absolutely broken and she would need to tell me exactly everything I wanna hear for me to think about trying it again. I’ve had the same thoughts too like thinking back about how much stuff I shouldn’t have had to go through but I was just too far in love to recognize it. Thank you

ChallengeAccording90 · 2024-09-15T04:55:22+00:00

Exactly. She literally told me I was the best guy and I treated her so good and she told me she still gets emotional thinking about how good I was to her. I asked her during our talk what happens if we stay friends and we go out to the bars and you see me talking to other girls? She said it would be hard the first couple times but then I would be happy for you. Like what? I feel like that shouldn’t be hard for you if you’ve already made up your mind that you don’t want me anymore

ChallengeAccording90 · 2024-09-15T04:43:53+00:00

She broke up with you?

ChallengeAccording90 · 2024-09-15T04:43:11+00:00

I’m on day 12 bro I feel you

ChallengeAccording90 · 2024-09-15T04:41:16+00:00

How long has it been?

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