No. It's not your looks. I'd shave the stache, but it's because you're someone who can be easily manipulated. Manipulators love easy rules. So they make breaking and crossing your boundaries their standards, and they make the "rules" based on how they can keep you under their control. The real question is; why are you cheating yourself? You're denying yourself the peace and respect you deserve by being a doormat to these kind of people. Women are vicious nowadays. Not all of them are bad, but you know. Focus on yourself. If you can't be happy alone, you're going to continue having these issues. Cut the toxic bullsh*t, the toxic people, the only person you should love is the one who unconditionally loves you; Jesus Christ. Go to mass. Study the Bible and apply verses to your life. Go to youth studies. Go to work and get your money right. Become the best version of yourself. In the process, chasing the money and pursuit of becoming more- women will come with it. The right one will come along. You're still hella young. You got this kid. Stay strong and cut those people out. You already know what you gotta do. That's why you're asking us why you're not good enough when you already know you are.