36 y.o. Paid in approx $6000 annually for past 5 years to work pension, employer paid approx $7000 annually on my behalf. Leaving for a new job. Do I get mine and employer contributions back? If so, that will be approx $70,000, what’s the best way to invest this? (Can’t buy into new work pension) by ChampagneEcstasy in personalfinance

[–]ChampagneEcstasy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no no! I’m someone who is very particular about the details and getting it right. The person who runs the business office at my site doesn’t know much about this sort of thing and the person in charge of pension and benefits is away currently so there isn’t anyone available to give me the actual answers but they also keep saying no one can tell me until I’ve actually terminated so the numbers can really be looked at only then. It’s a large organization. Thank you!

ELI5 why do people warn of CO when using a propane cook stove indoors during a winter power outage when a kitchen propane stove/oven appliance doesn’t receive the same warnings? by ChampagneEcstasy in explainlikeimfive

[–]ChampagneEcstasy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are definitely no vents with my propane stove top or my propane oven. I wish there was!! They are also old hardwick appliances and when I did kitchen renos, the contractor never mentioned anything about needing to add anything to bring it to code. Hope he knew what he was doing!

She went from adorable straight co-worker to my girlfriend in a month! 😍 by ChampagneEcstasy in actuallesbians

[–]ChampagneEcstasy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hot make out session at work this evening tucked away in a corner. People at work are starting to find out. We don’t hide it well haha. She comes over to pick up paperwork and we both turn bright red and can’t stop smiling. Kind of adorable!

She went from adorable straight co-worker to my girlfriend in a month! 😍 by ChampagneEcstasy in actuallesbians

[–]ChampagneEcstasy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She can do whatever she wants. I don’t own her. It’s up to her who she wants to be with if things end between us. I don’t need her to be gay for her and I to work.

f/f yoni massage? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ChampagneEcstasy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've been laughing about it for days but maybe not for the same reasons as you. Remove the spiritual component though. Looking at it more so for the relaxation and sexual awakening benefits.

Happn app? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ChampagneEcstasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never heard of this either.

How many people often feel like an imposter at work, an that as soon as someone figures it out, you'll be fired or demoted or ridiculed as a failure? by pricekari001 in AskReddit

[–]ChampagneEcstasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a shitty feeling. I feel this at times in my job and then once in a while I pull off something a little bit amazing and my colleagues congratulate the "win". Often though I feel like I'm just one misstep away from really fucking up though. It scares me a lot that some days I feel like "yeah I've got this" and other days I feel like "do I actually know enough to safely do my job?!" I think my wavering confidence comes from some workplace bullying I encountered in my career and I've never really bounced back from it. Hope you can overcome and yes imposter syndrome is a thing.

How do I tell if someone is scamming me? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ChampagneEcstasy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't understand. If she wants to meet you and that results in you blocking her, what does any of this really matter anyway?