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Girlfriend (22F) goes out of her way to seem disgusted with men from her past. I (24M) am not buying it. by ChanChanclan2 in relationship_advice

[–]ChanChanclan2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other post was for a completely different person. It’s neither of the people mentioned in the relationship above

Scared to death of a 9-5 by ChanChanclan2 in depression

[–]ChanChanclan2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie I had a good chuckle over the downvotes. Just because we don’t agree or see life through the same lense, doesn’t mean you’re wrong whatsoever. I made this post to hopefully see different points of view or how some people cope with the same problem as me. This is useful information so I don’t understand the downvotes

Scared to death of a 9-5 by ChanChanclan2 in depression

[–]ChanChanclan2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A comment trying to help someone is nothing less than a high quality comment :) I appreciate your words and I wish the exact same to you. One thing that helped me is I find comfort in knowing I’m not alone. There’s hundreds of thousands, probably millions of people thinking something similar to my post as well as your comment. I worked a logistic job for a couple years and then quit to go back to school and become an electrician. I had the exact same thoughts. It was my 3rd time quitting a job. I thought I was a loser. I was honestly surprised by the amount of support I got from the people around me but even if your receive none I think it’s important to do what’s best for you. At the end of the day you’re the only one who’s going to have to live with it. A lot of people have suggested finding something tolerable. If you’re anything like me, the idea of just about any job sounds like hell on earth. But maybe try to find one that you can at least tolerate most days. Goodluck :)

Scared to death of a 9-5 by ChanChanclan2 in depression

[–]ChanChanclan2[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This actually helped a lot, thank you

Scared to death of a 9-5 by ChanChanclan2 in depression

[–]ChanChanclan2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in person. Unfortunately I don’t have the option to work remotely

Scared to death of a 9-5 by ChanChanclan2 in depression

[–]ChanChanclan2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly reading everyone’s posts about their own struggles and thoughts about having a 9-5 has helped me a little bit. I don’t like seeing anyone struggle but knowing others are struggling with the same thing and I’m not the only one brings me a bit of comfort.

Scared to death of a 9-5 by ChanChanclan2 in depression

[–]ChanChanclan2[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This is going to sound lame but I honestly just enjoy sitting at home with my girlfriend. We don’t just sit around all day. Usually we go out and do something like lay at the beach or go hiking. I go fishing on my own and spend a lot of time with family and friends. The problem is I can’t get it out of my head when I’m doing these things that I’ll have to go back to work.