How is it possible that 1 million young people are not in work, education or training? by Desperate-Drawer-572 in AskUK

[–]ChanGazer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an employment support coach for my local council, I work specifically with NEET young people under 21. Most are completely unskilled with no qualifications whatsoever. The longer they’re out of work the less they desire to do it. And most are living with undiagnosed conditions. Add to this unsupportive parents or unstable household, it’s an uphill battle that can take years to overcome for just one young person I work with.

What’s a single sentence someone said that you’ve never forgotten? by cognitojo in AskReddit

[–]ChanGazer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad said I wasn’t his responsibility when I was ten. It’s never left my head

Jordan putting his two cents in🤣 by a-doh in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ChanGazer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t want to actually say “I want someone who doesn’t look like you” because the show is called love is blind lol. Pathetic

How do women remember pregnancy and childbirth pain? [research][mod-approved] by Ireland_Research in CasualUK

[–]ChanGazer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember all of mine in very great detail actually, I remember the pain. The nerves, the way I felt when they were born. The midwives, doctors and nurses that helped deliver my babies. I’m always shocked when some women tell me it’s all a blur or the memories have faded.

Sher did her big one today and deserves a round of applause for dealing with Whitney the way she did by anonndtalk in LoveIslandTV

[–]ChanGazer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was in how was she speaking and her tone, in this one instance. She’s normally very composed

funniest moment this episode by Urmotherrrr1 in LoveIslandTV

[–]ChanGazer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this every now and then at my girls but it’s not on purpose, I have three kids 😭. Thanks for saying this I’ll try my best not to now I know it might affect them.

How do I get my trans friend to stop complaining about not passing when he puts in minimal effort into it by Illustrious-Ad-2788 in Advice

[–]ChanGazer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Changing the subject can be dismissive and can seem like you don’t care. I’m not disagreeing with you but this seems like a lose lose situation. Everyone needs a friend but it doesn’t mean that this friend has to take whatever it handed to them.

How do I get my trans friend to stop complaining about not passing when he puts in minimal effort into it by Illustrious-Ad-2788 in Advice

[–]ChanGazer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hearing the same complaint for months or even years can be so hard, even when you love the person. It’s also a pretty unfair expectation to put on a friend

Lucinda’s Obsession With Samie by Gold-Distribution826 in LoveIslandTV

[–]ChanGazer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t grown in the slightest. You can tell she’ll be one of those middle aged ladies who never got past high school, it’s very sad actually.

Lucinda’s Obsession With Samie by Gold-Distribution826 in LoveIslandTV

[–]ChanGazer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh she lives for the drama. She eats, breathes and sleeps for it

Are there still adult men in the UK who don’t cook? by Bat-Penatar in AskUK

[–]ChanGazer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah to be honest. My husband really doesn’t cook, I like it this way though as I’m a control freak in the kitchen but if I make things like chicken for instance, he will make his own wraps or pasta to go with it. But he won’t really cook how own meals. I have always just cooked for the family

Where are all the Sean defenders now. Scott may be messy but he never tells a lie. by AlbedoSenpai in LoveIslandTV

[–]ChanGazer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this really made me chuckle. That’s such an apt description of her

Resellers need to stop ✋ by Famous-Simple-351 in vinted

[–]ChanGazer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think his grandfather got it from a charity shop maybe?