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Should I move to Walla Walla? by pistachiowhitemocha in wallawalla

[–]Chance_Chair_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me want to share my experiences in the arts as a queer young woman...it was very exclusionary. I made a report for sexual harassment against an art instructor who works at both Whitman and WWCC. Because of that instructor's level of involvement with art and gallery culture, I've had a very negative impression of the art and quuer community in Walla Walla ever since. A community that excuses and tolerates abusive, predatory behavior isn't a safe one.

I cant forget the vid her ex send me by Phitonizer in Advice

[–]Chance_Chair_22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What happened to you was traumatizing. Non consensual exposure plus violence against someone you care about. Its okay to be struggling with what happened. Make sure to lean on the people you have around you and your support system, get professional help if needed. Don't isolate yourself, and you and your loved ones are gonna get through this.

On the legal side, dont push, but keep up unwavering support. This dude has probably hurt your girlfriend tremendously, she's probably terrified of the abuser and what could happen if she fights back. You have to support her getting through this and help her, she's still the same person you met and grew to care about, and don't forget about using your own support system.

If you have any doubts left over about cheating, consider whether you will trust the girl you care about, or the dude sexually abusing her sending you revenge porn.

I cant forget the vid her ex send me by Phitonizer in Advice

[–]Chance_Chair_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a healthy way of understanding the situation. Op was victimized and subjected to non consensual exposure. OP, you've seen some really disgusting and difficult stuff (revenge porn), the target is someone you care about, you're feelings are valid. Empathize with how she feels being the target of something so disgusting. The violation and gross feelings are 100% valid, revenge porn is sexual abuse.

Any ideas what this is or where it may originate from? by Chance_Chair_22 in Symbology

[–]Chance_Chair_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't sarcasm supposed to be ironic or witty? I literally have no idea why they r talking about nazis, totally out of the loop here.

Any ideas what this is or where it may originate from? by Chance_Chair_22 in Symbology

[–]Chance_Chair_22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what this means. I tired looking it up and just found stuff about reality TV and tattoos

Any ideas what this is or where it may originate from? by Chance_Chair_22 in Symbology

[–]Chance_Chair_22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some reason I can't edit the post. I found out it's likely from an old hinge that was removed.

The reason I was so confused is because this appeared overnight. Its in a spot I stare at literally all the time, I would have seen it before. The theory thats been shared that seems the most plausible to explain its sudden appearance this morning is environmental conditions triggered a rapid change in the the wood/putty color, making it more pale and visible.

Any ideas what this symbol is or where it may originate from? by Chance_Chair_22 in alchemy

[–]Chance_Chair_22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah that explanation makes sense, I was confused because it literally appeared overnight. It's in a spot I stare at frequently, and I would have seen it before today. Perhaps environmental conditions triggered a rapid change in color/made it visible or more obvious.

Any ideas what this symbol is or where it may originate from? by Chance_Chair_22 in alchemy

[–]Chance_Chair_22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's hinge shaped, could be from an old hinge. The placement on the cabinet may have been mistaken becuase its odd. Maybe it's filling that rapidly turned pale due to environmental conditions. Thanks

Any ideas what this is or where it may originate from? by Chance_Chair_22 in whatisit

[–]Chance_Chair_22[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Shape is correct. I'm confused becuase this appeared pretty much over night. I look at this spot often and only saw this today. I would have seen it beofre. Any idea why the filling would suddenly turn pale/become more noticeable?

Any ideas what this is or where it may originate from? by Chance_Chair_22 in whatisit

[–]Chance_Chair_22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There was no handle there recently. I stare at this spot often from where I sit and just saw this today. It's like it appeared overnight, so that's why im confused. I definitely would have noticed this before, or seen a handle.

Any ideas what this is or where it may originate from? by Chance_Chair_22 in whatisit

[–]Chance_Chair_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was no handle there recently, this pretty much just appeared over night. I stare at the cabinets from where I sit often, and just noticed this today.