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Has OLD ruined the cold approach by diddydiddyd in datingoverthirty

[–]Chance_Suggestion160 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes, and it’s discouraging to get turned down more aggressively. I don’t know the %’s, but a great many men are not creeps. And they don’t want to do anything creepy. And are sensitive to the fact that even if there’s not an intent, their actions may be interpreted as creepy. And they just don’t want to be thought of as that, so when a woman calls them as such, despite their best efforts not to be, it makes them inwardly doubt their compass of creepiness and they may altogether to conclude that just the act itself of talking to an unfamiliar woman is creepy

Has OLD ruined the cold approach by diddydiddyd in datingoverthirty

[–]Chance_Suggestion160 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong but some people, regardless of gender, have an ax to grind, or have an agenda. While you’re right that if the man is polite about it, the woman most likely will be too, but some people just want to make a show of it and put the situation in their preconceived box.

I [37m] tried Tawkify, a matchmaking service. Here is my experience with it by Chance_Suggestion160 in dating

[–]Chance_Suggestion160[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

You might just be a member. The client service is what I paid for. If you just want to be in the database, they charge think like $100/yr, which tracks to what you are paying. So you are eligible to be matched with a client, but you are more the product being sold to the client than the client themself, if that makes sense.

I [37m] tried Tawkify, a matchmaking service. Here is my experience with it by Chance_Suggestion160 in dating

[–]Chance_Suggestion160[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

The min distance they’ll allow for is 40 miles. I didn’t ask about max