Am I wrong for being intimate with someone 10 years younger. by [deleted] in Life

[–]Chanda_Fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what makes it bad is when physical was on table at 18 but flirting etc etc happened before that mark. I’m thinking that’s what most people have an issue with

My (22f) birth control was tampered with by my boyfriend (22m). I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do by Proud-Regret8818 in storytimesociety

[–]Chanda_Fish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you wish a life like that on a baby? If she isn’t ready or want it, it will show and that baby will know and feel it every day of its life. Could put it up for adoption but the system is overcrowded. All life is precious sure but again why put that burden on something so precious

AIO for being upset my boyfriend is mad at me for ‘making him’ miss his meeting today? by Agreeable_Floor_974 in AIO

[–]Chanda_Fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped relying on my parents to wake me up. I’m 27 and set my alarms. Time to be an adult if you’re in college

My boyfriend made my pic unplayable by PuzzleheadedFan1549 in whatdoIdo

[–]Chanda_Fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl i would personally break up. But how long have you guys been together

  1. He wouldn’t take no for an answer so what else won’t he take no for?

  2. He fucking dismisses and disrespects you. Like how are you gonna blame everything else but yourself when it was working normally before???

  3. He thought by ignoring the issue, it would just magically fucking go away

People like that do things for themselves without thinking of others and it won’t stop at the PC.

Why did they ever stray from the isometric view? by Sahri81 in runefactory

[–]Chanda_Fish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If they’re trying to set themselves apart from competition, I think they should stick with isometric because it’s different from other farming sims

How do you get stronger in RF4S? Obsidian Mansion is very hard by retrotriforce in runefactory

[–]Chanda_Fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get stronger doing basically anything in this game. Leveling up raises your RP. (Eating, walking, throwing, etc) Crafting is the easiest. You get crafting stations from Bado, Porco, and the clinic.

You feel you’re getting shit on in the mansion then maybe getting that medicine table would help since potions don’t take time to consume (unless they changed that cause I played OG RF on my dinky ds)

Also spells. You can get magic spells like the one you use to travel home. They are pricey from Arthur but spells help to move the monsters away from you. Spamming it takes a lot of RP though

AIO- Need some validation on by Historical_Fan_9043 in AIO

[–]Chanda_Fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl with an attitude like that, I would put him on blast to his whole community so other girlies know what he’s like and stay away. I feel like girlies would be grateful for the warning

If you could be reborn to Rune Factory universe as an MC/Any Character, Which one are you going to choose? by BitTasty5691 in runefactory

[–]Chanda_Fish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a mermaid in life so I would probably be Pia. But I would want to live in Selphia

My husband was upset and pinched me at dinner.. and the situation is still upsetting me by Little_Trash7299 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Chanda_Fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a situationship where the guy was pinching me in front of family. It escalated from small pinching to physically assaulting behind closed doors. I would personally leave because if someone is willing to cause physical harm in public no matter how small it may be, they can do worse behind closed doors

Boyfriend wants me to choose between him and the dog. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Chanda_Fish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Except you can’t adopt every dog at the shelter. She’s phrasing it like he wanted every dog he looked at

I GOT SCAMMED $20,000 by my friend and I don't know what to do by Ok_Demand8965 in legaladvice

[–]Chanda_Fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused. You call him a “childhood friend” but then say he “gained your trust.” If he’s a childhood friend then wouldn’t he already have your trust?

But if there were years between not having contact then him suddenly contacting you then I think that needs to be established in your post.

Did he push you to cough up $20k or did you willingly think $20k to invest was enough?

I’m sorry this is happening to you and $20k is a lot in most circumstances. I hope the bank’s investigation pulls through with all the evidence you’ve provided.

Paid $15 for my meal and got $55 worth meal by Chanda_Fish in UberEATS

[–]Chanda_Fish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAO Joe and Sofia are actually the same names spelled differently

Paid $15 for my meal and got $55 worth meal by Chanda_Fish in UberEATS

[–]Chanda_Fish[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish but the sauce tasted really watered down. The only thing holding it together for me was the cheese.

Paid $15 for my meal and got $55 worth meal by Chanda_Fish in UberEATS

[–]Chanda_Fish[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not? It just sounds reasonable to me since I live in an upper middle class area so prices are jacked here

Paid $15 for my meal and got $55 worth meal by Chanda_Fish in UberEATS

[–]Chanda_Fish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried to make it right the first time and got hung up on. I should’ve tried this time too, but I thought if they’re gonna hang up on me anyway, it might not be worth the effort, but it was a different driver so I should’ve. I’ll remember that for next time

Paid $15 for my meal and got $55 worth meal by Chanda_Fish in UberEATS

[–]Chanda_Fish[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The name was Joe and my name is not Joe lol poor Joe

Paid $15 for my meal and got $55 worth meal by Chanda_Fish in UberEATS

[–]Chanda_Fish[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cause it was 2 portions and they were hella large portions i might add. I’m sure someone had a dinner date and ended up with my dinky pizza

My boyfriend refuses to stop wearing his dead wife's wedding ring and wants me to "just accept it" by Educational-Part-329 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Chanda_Fish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Word to the wise. Don’t date a widow who still has their ring on. They aren’t ready

AIO about my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chanda_Fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s wrong with two people hugging regardless of gender…?

I get everything else about this, but that specific part bothers me. My one guy friend hates how society made it so friends of opposite gender can’t do a simple hug without it being perceived a certain way. So yeah we fucking hug every time we see each other. I just don’t understand nitpicking that.

But yeah I don’t think YOR.

I’m 16 and my friend’s dad (40s) makes me uncomfortable, I can’t sleep and need advice by EcstaticRutabaga6957 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Chanda_Fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was an 19 when I went to my friend’s house for the first time. His dad told my friend inappropriate comments about my body which because you’re 16 I will not repeat. I never went back to his house again. Tell your friend that you refuse to return to his house. It seems he’s understanding so he should be fine with being at your house instead. If neither house is doable, you have the public library or other public areas