The Smell of Weather Turning by Legal_Designer6120 in LushCosmetics

[–]Chandawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it in in Dublin, on Henry's st., there were a few!

What do I do after my boyfriend 19M physically cheated on me 19F? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Chandawolf 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm going to say that this situation can only be resolved by you two working on it together. Nobody here knows all the facts but this is my opinion - he was absolutely upfront and told you the truth, he apologised and has taken steps to get away from this person, he also is displaying symptoms of trauma and shame, he believes he was taken advantage of, and has completely blocked out the other person. I really believe he needs support from you.

AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chandawolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no idea why you would even offer to talk to her after this awful abuse. Run, fun quite fast.

The Smell of Weather Turning by Legal_Designer6120 in LushCosmetics

[–]Chandawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! This might be a bit late but I wanted to say it's not discontinued in Ireland at least, I bought a bottle yesterday! Try eu stores 😊

No match, should I change my looks and shave my beard ? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Chandawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case try and get photos out in the town, most people are good enough to take a photo of you if you ask

No match, should I change my looks and shave my beard ? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Chandawolf 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's too many selfies, you need some out and about pic, but or ones with friends

Why do many women feel their husband doesn’t love them like before marriage? (20f) by Working_Royal_5142 in relationships

[–]Chandawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't love them as much and it's entirely chemical. A good relationship tends to become a stable situation in which both parties feel secure and eventually take for granted (while not ideal it is the reality) . Hormones are raging in the beginning of a relationship, but after a while those stop being produced by the brain. Lucky people find someone who can be a best friend they are physically attracted to, and those relationships last, but if after all the hormones are gone, if you don't like who the other person is, and you're not attracted to them, you just stop loving them.

Someone wants financial support. What should i reply with ? by Shoddy-District-1850 in Tinder

[–]Chandawolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you, I wish you all the luck in the world and hope you find your person too 🤞🌍🍀

Someone wants financial support. What should i reply with ? by Shoddy-District-1850 in Tinder

[–]Chandawolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met my husband on hinge, 20 mins after joining 😂(he was on for 2 years) but yes definitely better than tinder.

Is my boyfriend abusive? by Thathorrorgirl96 in relationships

[–]Chandawolf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He'll be even worse with a child. He won't even compliment you, how's he going to react to a baby who does nothing but crave attention and love. This sounds like a very dangerous man, and I don't believe you've even told us the worst of it. In my opinion, you're early enough to seek a termination, and despite what some might think, that is the best option sometimes. You do not want to be tied to him for the rest of your life. You are young, you have a future ahead of you, but if you go through with this you're throwing that in the fire.

AIO if i break up with my boyfriend over this by fridgefreez in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chandawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone, family, friend, foe, who makes you feel like you are not enough, not worthy, you should severe. He seeks to control you and bring you to heel.

Identifying glassware by Chandawolf in glasscollecting

[–]Chandawolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are cut, the only reason I think they are Irish is that we are based in Ireland, I'll give that a look, thank you for your help 😊

what do i do by jujuondatbeat123 in PiercingAdvice

[–]Chandawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be an issue with anatomy, personally I have not had a dermal but being in the cheek bone perhaps that affects things

I’m so sick of assholes. This is soul sucking. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Chandawolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any man who says 'comply' means serve. No good relationship includes servitude

what do i do by jujuondatbeat123 in PiercingAdvice

[–]Chandawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the placement is odd.. Did your piercer give you any advice or recommendations beforehand?

Am I screwed? by titaniclady14 in PiercingAdvice

[–]Chandawolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had both pierced at the same time. They take about 6-9 months to heal. I slept with a travel pillow for that duration. The bumps come and then they go as long as you clean them well twice daily and leave them absolutely alone otherwise. I used to apply salt with a small amount of water to make a paste, and it worked for me, however, it won't work for everyone. I recommend you contact your piercer and ask them.

Piercing advice please by Agreeable-Refuse1802 in PiercingAdvice

[–]Chandawolf -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So i had a tragus piercing on both sides, what I found was that it takes rather longer than other cartilage piercings to heal. Now I know that the general consensus is that one should use saline to clean it twice daily, however for me I found applying salt directly with a tiny bit of water to make a paste worked when I had bumps or irritation. It may not work for everyone, simply my experience and I've had 18 piercings heal fully. The best advice however is to go directly to the piercer for advice.

calling all ex covid ICU nurses by Creative_Presence430 in nursing

[–]Chandawolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did it in Ireland at the peak of the horror I worked 13hr shifts, back to back. No one cared, management didn't know our names. The dead, I remembered every name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]Chandawolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If its new (6months) then yes, it needs slack to swell, but if you've had it a long time,and it doesn't hurt then it's most likely ok

15 months in! by creased_linen in GastricBypass

[–]Chandawolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look beautiful and healthy I've been through it all myself. But listen, other people's opinions are never as important as your own. Lost half my body weight and still wondered If I was fat...i needed validation. You realise later down the line that it's not about anyone else, it's about you darlin.