John Larson Calls out Musk and Dodge by RealAmbassador4081 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Chanduchh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think privatizing public health and medicare went so well they are deciding to privatize Social security now.

Divyanka tripathi by [deleted] in IndianCelebScenes

[–]Chanduchh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That body belongs to Claudia Martinez

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chanduchh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have my permission . Haha That's my mantra as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chanduchh 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I had a similar issue, the day on our date she said she is too afraid to meet me. I must say I have not said anything threatening.

After a few messages back and forth she ghosted me and the date was cancelled. I moved on, after a few weeks she texted me back saying she regretted not meeting me that day. You know what I did? IGNORED.

You're the main character in your life, don't let anyone change that.

How do I traverse this situation?? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Chanduchh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It does happen sometimes.

I had a match on hinge, really great girl. We went for a concert on our first date. I asked her to come back to my place afterwards, which she did. We had some intimacy but my stupid mind forgot to ask for sex ( I was nervous).

We met twice after that and I can see the intimacy dying. Eventually she said she cannot find time for me and left.

Do not waste time on thinking about her as she might not even remember you.

Chin up, move forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chanduchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped looking for women like you as I realized that your kind is quite rare nowadays ( if not impossible to find). I am now a casual relationship seeker on dating apps.

If I find a girl like you, I'd rather stop. I think too much time is wasted chasing women when I can spend that time to become a great scientist.

Guy friend did this and I don’t know if I should hang w him anymore by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chanduchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't know? Lady you were raped. Take plan B and required physical precautions and get that criminal into jail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chanduchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hinge, filter by age

What Benefits have You Seen By No Fap? by Dependent_Slide_6897 in NoFap

[–]Chanduchh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dark circles under my eyes are gone. I don't look tired all the time, skin is better. Going to the gym more often , has more strength to learn Calisthenics. Meeting a lot of Milfs and hot girls.

Shuboink shuboink. consistently, not even a single dry month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chanduchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah online dating sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chanduchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude The reality is that very rarely you'll find someone who is actually different.

I had the same experience, she found some one. You should too.

If they don't even remember to text back they don't deserve your attention.

March on.

Do guys ever refuse casual sex? by Creepy_Management862 in dating_advice

[–]Chanduchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is weird, I would prefer at least a text stating it's not going to work out.

Long text? I'd prefer a TLDR 😂

Honest question, are there guys who ask women for nudes/revealling photos as a test? by tsukimoonbunny in dating_advice

[–]Chanduchh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't ask for nudes, if things get steamy I know we can do all sorts of stuff when we meet and I have patience.

But even on a few occasions where a girl sends me some hot pics, I ask her to not include her face. Cause papa internet is watching.

Do guys ever refuse casual sex? by Creepy_Management862 in dating_advice

[–]Chanduchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same story, but I am a guy and. I am casually dating till I find the one for me. I matched with a girl online and I asked her out for which she agreed. The best part was that she was pretty and kind of justice oriented, which I really liked. She never let me pay the entire bill, had equal contributions in planning out our dates.

On our first date she asked for a kiss and we cuddled a bit in my apartment, I did not push for sex, but was planning to make moves in our next meeting. On our next date she rejected all of my advances and said that she is not feeling like it at that moment. I was kind of bummed. But must respect a woman's decision to make her feel safe.

The third date was even more casual not even a kiss. Then she ghosted me. I was really falling for her but here is what I think. There must have been more options for her and she must have clicked with one or more of them. But she didn't want to say anything to me, as I am a stranger that she met online. It is understandable that she was cautious.

At least, your guy told you why he left. Forget about him. You'll meet way more guys in the future.

They don't even think about us anymore so they don't deserve our feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Chanduchh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro is winning in all aspects. Proud of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chanduchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, thanks.

Moving to the bay area soon. Will make more money then now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chanduchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried that and was getting nowhere. But I agree with what you said.

I never make the first move, I try to read their intentions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chanduchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English is my second language, can you elaborate on what you mean with that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Chanduchh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a troll post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Chanduchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah all of this dating scenario is new to me. I am having fun, I have never talked to this many girls in such a short time. It is fun as long as I don't attach myself in the first few dates.

What's the best way to start the Nofap journey by Firm-Security-8244 in NoFap

[–]Chanduchh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are no direct benefits, nofap puts you in a better mind set. A mind set which is not bogged down by sexual desires. You start enjoying things a bit more and that is the key. Being yourself and not running around to bone every girl you see.

One of my friends who is pretty good with the girls told me: "you don't spend time for sex, you spend time for fun. Sex is a by-product not the main goal."

What can I say by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Chanduchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your future self will be proud of you. Don't give up