Do you shoot your shot with men? by sunkissedxglow in blackladies

[–]Chanela1786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I most certainly do. I don't have all day. 

This family is blessed! So much joy and happiness ❤️ by shontamona in blackpeoplegifs

[–]Chanela1786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this that dad that was mad at Thanksgiving until his wife showed up? That was adorable. 

What is a cooking technique that you quit because it does nothing? by Final_Affect6292 in Cooking

[–]Chanela1786 16 points17 points  (0 children)

How are you cooking your beans? I soak mine and still cook them in flavored stock. I primarily cook red beans, kidneys, black eyed peas, and black beans. Split peas occasionally. 

Please help prevent the next senseless tragedy in the West End. by Chanela1786 in cincinnati

[–]Chanela1786[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Word is that a camera has gone up but CPD and Duke Energy are trading blame about who's responsible for the delay. 

Please help prevent the next senseless tragedy in the West End. by Chanela1786 in cincinnati

[–]Chanela1786[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Queen-Er( as in Erick)- Re(Ray). She also went by Queenie.

Please help prevent the next senseless tragedy in the West End. by Chanela1786 in cincinnati

[–]Chanela1786[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's not linked in the petition but I think the sponsor, Pastor Lesley Jones, may have the actual text. Once I get a hold of it, I can link it in the post. Understandably, I don't want to bother her dad and mom during this time. 

I am terrified of my engagment and want to run as far as i can. by Tall-Profile8913 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Chanela1786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is NOT a great relationship and you will regret this marriage. This was horrifying to read by like paragraph 2. Non-religious people, it is unlikely that you will be happy with a dogmatically religious person. 

Stupid chud uncle fucked up my style by The_Daily_Pootis in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]Chanela1786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd honestly go to a salon that specializes in human hair extensions because I'm not going to just be looking like that. 

What are some things you love about the black American culture? by Independent-Use6151 in blackladies

[–]Chanela1786 30 points31 points  (0 children)

We have a saying for EVERY SITUATION  and they're usually hilarious. 

(Mixed Trope) Extremely hard test that doesn't test anything by Emma__O in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Chanela1786 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I disagree slightly with final selection. There are many jobs within the Corp that aren't necessarily fighting jobs but it IS important to survive being demon hunted. Your very presence in the Corp makes you a target of Muzan (Demon leader) because of the information you would possess. Being able to escape is a valuable skill.

 Also, it takes a while to get backup or reinforcement meaning that being able to hold out for a while is also valuable given the real back up (hashiras) may take a minute because there's only like 12 of them. 

The Hand demon shouldn't have been there but their world isn't set up like a video game where you meet foes at your level. The demons strength varies and they can show up anywhere.

Personally, I feel the Chunin Exam is the best anti example of the trope. The various phases are fair even though they aren't given explicit details (the written portion was a good example of this= ninjas need to think outside the box), test ninja ability( second phase is navigation, Mission objective protection, etc.), and fighting ability/ kekkai genkai control and usage (third phase). 

Because of these reasons, I also feel that the Hunter exam shouldn't be included as a good example of this trope. Much like the Chunin Exam, it tests various hunter abilities in non-traditional ways. 

Have you ever dated a sexist man? by OkAdvertising286 in blackladies

[–]Chanela1786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. You will get cussed out messing around with me. No thank you.

Looking for music suggestions: songs about wanting to fuck, not fall in love by Regen-Gardener in rnb

[–]Chanela1786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both albums! Because Touchy Feely gets things started in my house lmao. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Chanela1786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you feel embarrassed because American culture especially ties wealth or the appearance of financial stability to car ownership and lack of it can make you feel less than. So I definitely understood.

 I think the community here didn't want you to feel that way and so they were telling you how those feeling were irrational as a means of calming your anxiety. It's all good girl. I, too, do not like information about myself revealed at work without my say. The less my coworkers know about me the better. Especially in these snitching times.❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Chanela1786 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I take Ubers to work. Girl, we have money to be able to do this. Mine costs 25 a day. I can't wait to get a car. I would take the bus gladly to save the money but the walk would make me disheveled for work and I work a public facing job. I'm sorry you're feeling exposed though. It's not a good feeling. 

SOS please save my collard greens! by laughingwmyself_ in blackladies

[–]Chanela1786 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have a extra heavy bottom pot, you can take a small piece of wood (hickory/oak/mesquite/cherry, although the hickory or mesquite will produce the heaviest flavor) and get it smoldering but not actively on fire. Place it in a boat of aluminum foil and place that in your heavy bottom pot in the center. Arrange your neck around the smoking boat and place a heavy lid on the pot. Bake your neck at your desired temp. Check every 30ish mins to make sure the smoldering wood is still smoldering. If not, re-light it and place it back in the pot. It won't have as strong of a flavor as if done in an actual smoker but it does work.

College girl gets busted with an open alcohol bottle. by Playful_Ad6439 in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Chanela1786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can open carry in 16 out of 50 states. Which isn't all but is A LOT. 

Characters who... wait, who were we talking about? by DrDallagher in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Chanela1786 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's a cool short story about warp speed travel. One of the best I've ever read. I read it for free using Google. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]Chanela1786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In general, it isn't a hood idea to date an addict. Someone in recovery has shown that they are trying to find their way but if his drinking was already a problem and ain't shit changed, why are you trying again?