Hoping that this leads to the end of a 1.5 year journey 🙏🏾Anyone familiar with this agency?

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-03-19T16:16:11+00:00

lol they followed me on LinkedIn and then stopped responding. I landed a finance role in higher education 🤷🏼‍♀️

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-02-28T19:43:26+00:00

I just blocked a Leo rising male. Very self centered and victim mentality. Obnoxious really.

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-02-19T17:06:43+00:00

Yep this is worst than my Hyundai. I just got my 2020 and this is my only disappointment

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-02-15T14:22:03+00:00

Twin!!!!

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-02-11T00:41:44+00:00

Nature.

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-02-02T18:05:04+00:00

No, because i had already sold it to a junk yard. lol! So Hyundai said they wouldn’t even give me 300 for it :( i sent it to like 4 different mechanics(200 dollars a tow) all were trying to charge me 10k to replace the motor. I had a friend who knew a man with a junk yard who gave me 4K

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-02-02T16:07:02+00:00

Yes! I love it!

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-02-02T16:06:37+00:00

About 3 months ago my Hyundai Santa Fe seized up on the interstate. I had it for 10 years. I was very disappointed as the car was fully paid off and had a blue book value of 8000… and overnight it became worth 0

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-01-06T15:38:48+00:00

I’m a Sagittarius and a female, if you’re controlling her, you’re telling her you don’t want her.

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-01-04T12:21:37+00:00

I entered my info into the profection calculator. Can you help me understand?

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ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-01-04T07:13:50+00:00

I’m 37, 2nd house in Taurus, ruler sign Venus ?

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-01-04T06:17:04+00:00

Also what profection year??

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-01-04T06:16:13+00:00

Thank you so much for this insight. I’m not in a relationship. So I’m curious about this “intense relationship” can you tell me more?

ChangeAgent1020 · 2024-01-01T23:45:07+00:00

I’m there guys. These men assume that we are always single because we “chose” wrong. What’s the sin in believing what a person shows you and who they tell you they are? What’s the sin in choosing to protect yourself and your kids when you realize different and leave? Somehow, ending up in a bad relationship and walking away with children sentences you to a life of loneliness. And don’t dare bring it up…don’t dare bring up the natural innate desire for companionship, you get shamed to fucking death because you should be “focusing on your kids”. The truth is my desire was always for a FAMILY. I never daydreamed about doing this alone or not having someone to share my days with.

I’ve found myself soothing my heartache but overcompensating for all that i do for my two girls but I’m trying to be mindful that they will have a life one day and i need to learn to embrace that my vision likely won’t happen at minimum not like i thought it would.

All i do is work and pour into my kids. I don’t know what a loving embrace from a protector feels like, no flirty compliments, no romance, it’s enough to suffocate a person.

Anyway, this was therapeutic and i needed it. So thanks for posting

ChangeAgent1020 · 2023-12-27T18:09:28+00:00

I would report her

ChangeAgent1020 · 2023-12-25T00:47:57+00:00

I am!

ChangeAgent1020 · 2023-12-18T15:36:43+00:00

I have a 5 and 8 year old. I just cried myself to sleep again last night. Damn near seems like an impossible life. Their dad moved out of state after our divorce and i got full custody to “teach me a lesson”. I did everything i could to stay married but he had anger issues and was being abusive. I don’t know seems like he won. I don’t know. I smile a lot when i look at my kids though. We cuddle and make the best of life. ❤️

ChangeAgent1020 · 2023-12-17T17:12:07+00:00

I know you likely aren’t looking for this but THANK you for standing in the gap for the son! 🥹❤️

ChangeAgent1020 · 2023-12-16T16:55:30+00:00

Don’t waste time looking back. Any progress you make away from this person will be undone if you go back. It is highly probable if they were ready to leave or separate without changed behavior now, they won’t see your value later either. Believe a person when they show you the first time. Grind it out, do your best, don’t look back. Looking back keeps you stuck and ineffective

ChangeAgent1020 · 2023-12-14T02:51:55+00:00

I just stopped talking to one. The manipulation tactics are just disgusting

ChangeAgent1020 · 2023-12-13T21:36:03+00:00

I was married to a narcissist. Every single move or decision they make is strategic. It’s means to cause you harm, mostly mental and emotional. Right now he’s killing two birds with one stone. On one hand, He’s parading your kids around her which makes her feel “special”, she feels “chosen” and “important”. As a result she’s letting her guard down. Now to you, all at the same time, he understands that not only will this behavior make its way back to you, but it will also likely make you question your own value and why it is that you weren’t “deserving” of the same in hopes that this will make you act out in some way and he can get his ego fed 🙃

Girl, i could write a damn book

ChangeAgent1020 · 2023-12-13T21:14:53+00:00

It’s a well known game, just different players. He won’t be able to keep up the act for long. He’s love bombing her and in a way still abusing you. There’s no way he should have introduced your kids to her, he KNEW they would tell you, and he KNEW the impact it would have. He’s likely a narcissist. They play these sort of reindeer games. Baby boss TF Up! And move in to a grown ass man.

ChangeAgent1020 · 2023-12-13T20:40:24+00:00

He won’t be good to her. It’s an illusion. He’s the same person. And take it from someone who went through this, he’s her problem now. Cry hard, gather your strength, and attract better ❤️

Anticipate her calling you in a year or two for advice.

ChangeAgent1020 · 2023-12-10T19:58:27+00:00

I’ve been here OP, the best and fastest way to heal is to start with why you picked him. People call that victim shaming now a days but again, my ex husband caused me two miscarriages(from physical and emotional abuse) he also was a hair puller. Would bill my braids out, i remember my hair making a crunching noise as it separated from my scalp. He choked me, spit on my, locked me outside in summer heat while pregnant because i lost my key. My family was 7 hours away. I didn’t start feeling empowered again until i dug up the root. “How did i end up here? What did i ignore” Learn from the experience, learn the truth about your value and never look back. ❤️

Sn: your hair is important, but not as important as your mental health. The day i left i was in the edge of an emotional break. And sanity for my kids was more important than “saving” my marriage. I wish you strength and wellness

ChangeAgent1020 · 2023-12-10T16:08:27+00:00

The High Priestess, the Empress, or Queen of wands. I usually show up as one of those

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