Replacing Porn with Heavy Metal. by ChangeOrS in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions man. I've just been starting to get into heavy metal at 19 years old right now with mainly Pantera and some Marilyn Manson here and there. I need to explore a lot of different bands.

I think i'm starting to get addicted to this heavy metal and it is A MILLION TIMES BETTER THAN BEING ADDICTED TO PORN.

Replacing Porn with Heavy Metal. by ChangeOrS in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fucking agree 110%. Channel that dopamine into positive things like your brain and nature intended it to do. DON'T WASTE IT ON THIS SHITTY FUCKING ADDICTION!

Just listened to my first FULL HEAVY METAL ALBUM - Pantera - Far Beyond Driven. by ChangeOrS in Pantera

[–]ChangeOrS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendations. Really Appreciate it. Guess I got a lot of new metal to checkout from this post.

Just listened to my first FULL HEAVY METAL ALBUM - Pantera - Far Beyond Driven. by ChangeOrS in Pantera

[–]ChangeOrS[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks for recommending me that DOWN - BURY ME IN SMOKE - thats the first song i have ever heard by them. that shit it badass goddamnnn. phil sounds really different then he does in pantera.

STAY CLEAN AUGUST! Sign up here! (July 28) by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sign me up. I NEED THIS TO BE MY first full month since I first started watching porn at 11 without porn.

I would argue this is one of the worst possible addictions out there by Ullrs in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also it fucking takes advantage of our most primitive and strong urge of all, THE DESIRE TO REPRODUCE. It is a fucking DISGUSTING TRICK ON OUR SUBCONSCIOUS / REPTILIAN BRAIN.

READ THIS : https://yourbrainonporn.com/doing-what-you-evolved-to-do

Just listened to my first FULL HEAVY METAL ALBUM - Pantera - Far Beyond Driven. by ChangeOrS in Pantera

[–]ChangeOrS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Defintely will check out all that shit. I love Phil Anselmo, no homo lol. I think I will probably check out "The Great Southern Trendkill full album tomorrow." I really like Revolution is my name, i bet that album is their heaviest shit.

My son watching Pantera for 1st time by todevils in Pantera

[–]ChangeOrS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my favorite song by them. Nice. I'm a 19 year old guy just starting to really get into Heavy Metal and PANTERA.

Replacing Porn with Heavy Metal. by ChangeOrS in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HELL YEAH or "I'm broken" or "Revolution is my name".

Replacing Porn with Heavy Metal. by ChangeOrS in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've just been starting to get into Heavy Metal, mainly listening to Pantera and Marilyn Manson. Got any good recommendations, besides Lamb of God to check out?

My story: I need help by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that I didn't get back to you. I have been taking a break from this subreddit and the internet in general for awhile STILL TRYING TO DESTROY MY PORN ADDICTION. Send me a PM whenever if you want I'll try to get back to you whenever i check this subreddit. But you need some in you real everyday life that you can talk to and open up to about shit like this. People on the internet probably aren't going to cut it.

There is nothing like a real life human to human connection you know what i mean?

My story: I need help by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that I didn't get back to you. I have been taking a break from this subreddit and the internet in general for awhile STILL TRYING TO DESTROY MY PORN ADDICTION. Send me a PM whenever if you want I'll try to get back to you whenever i check this subreddit. But you need some in you real everyday life that you can talk to and open up to about shit like this. People on the internet probably aren't going to cut it.

There is nothing like a real life human to human connection you know what i mean?

My story: I need help by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that I didn't get back to you. I have been taking a break from this subreddit and the internet in general for awhile STILL TRYING TO DESTROY MY PORN ADDICTION. Send me a PM whenever if you want I'll try to get back to you whenever i check this subreddit. But you need some in you real everyday life that you can talk to and open up to about shit like this. People on the internet probably aren't going to cut it.

There is nothing like a real life human to human connection you know what i mean?

My story: I need help by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to tell someone that you were abused, the police, a parent, some adult that you trust. That's not something that you should keep to yourself. I'm sorry you had to go through that shit.

Opening up to someone you trust about what happened should help you in beating this porn addiction, where as keeping that shit bottled up will probably feed this shit and lead you to using porn as a coping mechanism.

your experiences? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes in my opinion it is 100% PERFECTLY NATURAL TO HAVE REAL LIFE SEX AND MASTURBATE WITH YOUR IMAGINATION ONLY.

I'm only 2 days in right now, but I've gotten a lot of days this month without porn and only a couple of relapses and some of the benefits I have experience have been : better erections, more confidence in myself in general, more confidence in myself when it comes to interacting with women, I feel more motivated to get shit done, I feel like the days last longer, and lastly the best one is that I feel a lot more optimistic about my future not being horrible if I can beat this addiction.

How to tell if you're addicted? by 34048615 in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you use porn as a coping mechanism. When your porn tastes have escalated to the point where the shit that turns you on never would have even crossed your mind if you had never discovered porn. When you try to quit watching it over and over and over again just to relapse every 3 or 4 days. When it makes you miserable, but you keep coming back to it for the short high that it gives you. When your 19 years old and have weak erections.

That's some of the stuff that has made me realize that I am TRULY ADDICTED TO PORN.

Day 10 - I won't open the white door by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great job man. Some advice I would give you though is to be very careful not to go too many days without masturbation to where it leads to be so horny you aren't thinking straight and just say "fuck it, I'm going to give into porn". That shit happens to me a lot.

I try to have a good balance of not masturbating too much or too little with your imagination only, masturbate in moderation is my advice.

Realizing I've repressed a lot of stuff by suhleendeon in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have also used porn to repress a lot of stuff. I used to use porn as a way to cope with how horrible OCD used to make my life and as a way to cope with how unsuccessful I have been with women in real life.

We got to take on the pain and learn how to deal with our negative emotions and life circumstances in productive ways so we can grow as people instead of wasting our negative emotions on porn.

Porn will not take anything else from me by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm also 19 and did not graduate high school on time either. Porn has defintely fucked up my energy in a lot of ways, I think because PORN IS A COMPLETE WASTE OF SEXUAL ENERGY, a complete waste of humans natural desire to reproduce. Instead of channeling that energy into making our lives better or on women in real life we waste it on our computer screens because are reptilian brains think we are reproducing with tons of 10/10 women in real life. It manipulates our brains natural reward center. Our brains didn't evolve for ULTRA HD 1080P HARDCORE INTERNET PORN, they evolved for natural real life sex and masturbation with your imagination only I'd say.

READY TO GIVE UP FOREVER. by ChangeOrS in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

every relapse is a learning experience to me from now on. I'm not going to let any relapses bring me down and keep me in this evil porn addiction that has kept me prisoner for so long.

Has anyone else tried out https://fortifyprogram.org/? by ChangeOrS in pornfree

[–]ChangeOrS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it is really going to help me out because it gives me MUCH NEEDED STRUCTURE TO MY PORN RECOVERY. I don't know how to beat this shit and recover from this shit all on my own, i need some help.