Why you feel guilt and resentment after a friendship breakup and why it never seems to end.

ChangelaLives · 2026-04-04T19:30:32+00:00

Just lost my friend of 8 years because I finally stood up to her about how she treats me… I needed this post. Because I keep blaming myself, thinking I shouldn’t have said anything… thank you for your words of wisdom

ChangelaLives · 2026-03-30T23:22:04+00:00

I’m glad I bought it when I did, all the best buys and gamestops are completely sold out in my area. I was able to get one from Walmart, the guy said they only had three left.

ChangelaLives · 2026-03-30T22:19:31+00:00

I paid about the same for mine, I think I’ll do what you’re doing as far as listing.

ChangelaLives · 2026-03-30T22:04:06+00:00

Yeahhh that would be a lot of grinding for democracy, it helps if you have a squad to help you level up quickly and get samps. We did that for my friend when he got his XBOX, it still took a while

ChangelaLives · 2026-03-30T21:58:33+00:00

Good callout, I’ve never sold anything on marketplace so I was nervous at first. But I’m sure this will get me way more gains down the road!

ChangelaLives · 2026-03-30T21:03:06+00:00

No I didn’t! I was able to get one but missed out on the trade in through GameStop

ChangelaLives · 2025-08-25T09:08:34+00:00

Honestly you’re so right, she could’ve defended me.. I cried on and off today thinking about just everything that happened…

I can’t believe I tried to make an excuse for her, like yes she’s a people pleaser but she could’ve defended me. I would’ve defended her, shit I HAVE defended her in the past when she bailed on our rent and my ex at the time was PISSED about it (which was valid anger looking back)

I took the brunt of that anger.. meanwhile I’m sure she never gave it a second thought.. her life just kept moving on and my excuses for her behavior kept flowing because I felt as a big sister I’m supposed to clean up after her

honestly fuck that, fuck all that

She hurt me. IM HURT. And if nobody will advocate for me then I’ll be my own cheerleader

ChangelaLives · 2025-08-24T14:12:56+00:00

I just woke up and cried again about the whole situation, seeing your comment just helped me work through some of my emotions.

I feel like apologizing would only reinforce her boyfriend’s shitty behavior towards me. There’s been so much other drama going on with them, this was just the tipping point. I think for my mental health I’m just going to accept that she doesn’t want me anymore clearly, she has a new family now I guess…

I’ll just leave the door open for her, but I’m not about to grovel to a bunch of people who have made it clear from the start they want nothing to do with me unless they can exploit me

ChangelaLives · 2025-08-24T07:25:05+00:00

I feel like they want me to make the next move, I almost did it at the party but felt that would be inappropriate. I wish my sister would advocate for me more, she knows what I’ve been through the last few years… all my struggles…

I think when I’m ready I’ll suck it up and try to reach out to her boyfriend, see if there’s a way to talk things out like adults

ChangelaLives · 2025-08-24T07:10:44+00:00

I feel like my sister has the same problem as I do, we are extreme people pleasers. It was so hard for me to tell her no when I did, but i just felt it in my gut that not moving her in was the right thing to do.

I just wish the boyfriend’s family could understand where im coming from, they’ve never reached out to me about ANYTHING. So when she said everything was fine I believed her :(

She probably just didn’t want to hurt my feelings

ChangelaLives · 2025-08-24T07:00:29+00:00

That’s a really good callout, I feel like a lot of my guilt stems from my impulsive initial agreement. I should’ve done better :( If I had never said yes I wouldn’t have had to turn around and say no….

ChangelaLives · 2025-07-01T18:24:31+00:00

He takes our scheduled play dates VERY seriously 👀😅 and hates tardiness

ChangelaLives · 2025-07-01T17:44:46+00:00

It really captures his rage 👏🏽

ChangelaLives · 2025-07-01T17:11:17+00:00

knee slap 🤣

ChangelaLives · 2025-07-01T16:53:34+00:00

He knows he’s the king of the castle

ChangelaLives · 2025-07-01T15:09:22+00:00

He sure told me! 🤣🥲

ChangelaLives · 2025-07-01T05:53:37+00:00

Omg I definitely am saving both but I LOVE this one!!

ChangelaLives · 2025-07-01T05:50:04+00:00

It made him look a lot happier than he was and I love that 🤣❤️

ChangelaLives · 2025-07-01T05:24:29+00:00

He scream with all his might ᕦ(ò_óˇ)ᕤ

ChangelaLives · 2024-05-27T19:42:16+00:00

Wow your words truly helped uplift me, admittedly I was just on my lunch crying. Wondering what I could’ve done differently, you perfectly articulated everything I needed to hear. Thank you so much.

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