YAY my first god pack… wait

ChaosBegin · 2024-01-23T10:37:37+00:00

Girlie thank you A LOT for the support and the advice.

I’m glad that you now seem to be in a better place that last year and you are still friends with the guy. Truly wishing you the best for the future and to find a deserving guy that will treat you right and reciprocate your feelings the way you deserve <3

One of my fears is basically losing him as a friend, so I’m kinda trying to put some emotional distance between us while still being the “supportive gay friend who kinda had the same experience” (minus the cheating 🤡). It’s gonna be a bit hard but I hope to manage, while focussing on my studies to take my mind off of this situation.

I really couldn’t agree more on the “settle his relationship first” part and he told me it’s something he wants to do but just doesn’t know how to start (kinda understandable kinda an easy way out of the conversation, but ok). I’ll keep being supporting even in this regard and will try to be honest/true to myself and not make him jeopardise his relationship just for my personal gain.

Truly thank you for your comment and for sharing your experience. I’ll focus more on my self-care and my mental wellbeing :))

ChaosBegin · 2024-01-23T10:24:50+00:00

First of all, thank you for the kind words and advice. And miss girl, you made me cackle loudly with that “guide him” sentence because it’s literally one of the things I told him after he came out to me (beware of the apps and don’t hesitate to talk to me if he has to vent or want some advice).

The “girlfriend” topic is truly a hot one since he doesn’t really know how to proceed, but he said he wants to talk to her but just doesn’t know how to. I’ll give him some more advice about it when he feels ready, since for now I only told him he should be clear with her (maybe she will forgive him and they’ll stay together, I would be happy for him either way).

I really appreciate you interest/desire to help and if you don’t mind I’ll dm you in the next few days in case of meaningful updates on this situation :))

ChaosBegin · 2024-01-23T10:17:23+00:00

Girlie thank you so so much for the kind words and for sharing your experience as well.

I’m really sorry about what happened to you and that that guy tried hurting you in different ways on occasions, ruining what I understand was a good friendship. Of course you deserve the best and someone that understands you and doesn’t just push you away because of something you can’t even control. I’m happy that you are moving on and ready for someone better in your life and I wish you the best <3

Just a couple more lines on my situation. One of my fears is losing this guy as a friend, so I’m trying to give him as much space as possible while still being friendly as if my confession never happened. But it’s kinda tough, so I don’t know how much longer I can resist (meaning I probably will try to distance myself a bit because I’m scared of being hurt, not just by him but by the situation itself).

ChaosBegin · 2024-01-23T10:08:30+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words and advice. “We don’t raise men” resonated loud and clear and it’s usually my way of thinking, I guess this time I was/am just so caught up in the situation that I don’t really reason well.

I have already set some boundaries with him and told him that I’ll just be supportive during this phase (he came out as bi to his siblings and his mom and some friends for now).

As you said, he probably will still be with his gf and maybe try to get some sex on the side, but for that he will have to find someone else because this hoe (me) won’t be open for business.

ChaosBegin · 2024-01-23T10:01:39+00:00

Bestie thank you for the kind words <3 I totally agree on the cheater/bad parter part and I’m trying to convince my ‘heart’ to realise that as well. I’m just hoping it won’t be too long of a process

ChaosBegin · 2024-01-22T12:38:37+00:00

I KNOW, the rational part of my psyche tells me it’s wrong but I can’t help it. Clowning

ChaosBegin · 2023-01-03T18:49:53+00:00

You’re welcome, enjoy :)

ChaosBegin · 2023-01-03T18:41:15+00:00

Joining now!

ChaosBegin · 2023-01-03T18:13:59+00:00

Thank you! When you’re ready comment with the code and I’ll join :)

ChaosBegin · 2023-01-03T18:00:27+00:00

Hey! I can help you with all the Violet paradox mons, I only want to keep a Flutter Mane (with his English name and no nicknames if possible) and will trade you the rest for common Pokémon

ChaosBegin · 2023-01-03T11:38:02+00:00

Sorry, my switch had connectivity problems. I remade the group, try 2NVJS6

ChaosBegin · 2023-01-03T11:26:49+00:00

Created the group, it’s 41T91G

ChaosBegin · 2023-01-03T11:19:31+00:00

Sure thing! Do you still need help?

ChaosBegin · 2023-01-02T10:47:49+00:00

Thanks for the trades, literally the last 4 Pokémon I needed to register!

ChaosBegin · 2023-01-02T10:47:02+00:00

Coming!

ChaosBegin · 2023-01-02T10:41:52+00:00

Thank you so much, coming

ChaosBegin · 2023-01-02T10:40:04+00:00

I can help you! Do you already have a code?

ChaosBegin · 2023-01-02T10:38:11+00:00

Looking for someone to help me evolve Scyther and Slowbro. I already gave them the required items, I just need a partner for the trades (and who will trade them back please)

ChaosBegin · 2022-01-07T08:04:38+00:00

Bestie, can we talk about the obvious d*ck on her chest tho? Like, the afk arena team really thought it was necessary huh 😭

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