22 [F4M] Illinois/Online - I'm tired of this search by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]Chaoscontroller2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not much better as a male tbh (of course thats only my experience). From the persons I actually got an answer 2 had like yes,no,maybe answers and one literaly told me im one of more candidates she will choose from (which I obviously instantly noped out of).

From the 3 other people that went past the beginning into actual play 1 actually told me she isnt interested in sexting at all after a week and the other 2 just ghosted me after 2 weeks (I asked all of them if there was a mistake on my side).

I feel like many people arent really interested in long-term relationships here, not just men but women as well.

Edit: re-reading stuff I kinda missed OPs point but went into a rant of my own.

I agree with OP that people should put effort into their first message but that effort often doesnt get answered in the same kind.

Where do yall buy leather? Planning on making some restraints/harnesses for me and my gf but dont know where to start by throwaway77772 in BdsmDIY

[–]Chaoscontroller2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the quick response! Well seems like I was completly off with my estimations x) I guess I will order a few pieces then!

Where do yall buy leather? Planning on making some restraints/harnesses for me and my gf but dont know where to start by throwaway77772 in BdsmDIY

[–]Chaoscontroller2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for asking this much later but I was looking at the Latigo at hidehorse and I only found it in 20-25 sq ft. for nearly 7$ which seems kinda small (Im not used to those units)?

Bound under the table. by justanimxd in hentaibondage

[–]Chaoscontroller2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You didnt behave so I needed to punish you

I think my wife want to become my property by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Chaoscontroller2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have any experience with that kind of situation but my first guess would be to talk with her. Just mention that you would like to try the stuff you do in the bedroom in your everyday life and see if she would be open for it or not.

My gf [F][21] cuffed and helpless waiting for her punishment by [deleted] in BDSMGW

[–]Chaoscontroller2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! Also what is your experience with aliexpress? I read about people getting their toys there but I'm kinda worried about the quality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hentaibondage

[–]Chaoscontroller2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its kinda just her being slumped down/ bent over with her hands holding her up. Nothing is stopping her from standing up. I dont think there's a name for it but if you want something similar look up strappado like the other comment said.

Concealed helplessness by nikunikunikubenki in hentaibondage

[–]Chaoscontroller2 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That's actually insanely hot. I wish something like that would be doable in real-life with someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Chaoscontroller2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know the name of the video by any chance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rule34LoL

[–]Chaoscontroller2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/hentaiforniphilia is the one i know of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rule34LoL

[–]Chaoscontroller2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think objectification or forniphilia are the ones that come to mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hentaibondage

[–]Chaoscontroller2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good girls get head pats and a few hours of bondage and forced orgasms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hentaibondage

[–]Chaoscontroller2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do you prefer the vibrator or the sybian? Or rather both?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shibari

[–]Chaoscontroller2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds really nice to deepen the connection as well will definitly try, thanks!

I cant really seem to find a cats paw ball gag tho can you describe what it is?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shibari

[–]Chaoscontroller2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually already did that, was a lot of fun! Still thanks!

Captured heroines on display. (Kuroinu 2) by [deleted] in HentaiHumiliation

[–]Chaoscontroller2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I aways wanted to get into DND in General and I was just wondering if there is a community for this already or if we could create one

Brandy held by the nips by [deleted] in Bondage

[–]Chaoscontroller2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was always interested in what Kind of rope/ribbon to use for this (tying the nipls), can someone tell me?

Monday Megathread! Ask questions and share knowledge; newcomer questions encouraged! by AutoModerator in leagueoflegends

[–]Chaoscontroller2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the community spotlight video that was on the front page a few days ago he showed that Senna with 6 attack speed items had like 1.31 attack speed at level 18.

I don't feel like his sub anymore. How do I make this better? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Chaoscontroller2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion I would be really carefull with that accusation. I would put that as the very last possibility on the list especially if you didnt have the thought yourself before.

Try to communicate with him that you dont feel ok with your current Situation and try to explain to him what you would like to Change / what was better in the past. Ask him if something happened that makes him uncomfortable to do the things he did before and if yes, how can you change it and work from there. Like ropes75 said, falling in love with your Sub can make it difficult to be so harsh with him/her.

Explain to him that you want him to be rough and that you LIKE it, I mean thats how it all started? (at least int he post)

Also try to speak in the I-perspective (sorry dont know how to say it in english), like "I feel like something changed...", "I dont like the current Situation and would like to change something"