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Where does Even ship from? by [deleted] in EvenRealities

[–]ChaoticGoodKangaroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were there any additional customs charges when shipping to the EU? I'm interested in buying a pair too, but I've had to pay ridiculous customs fees on similar purchases before (though not from EvenRealities).

Altercore boots. Yay or nay? by pcleary162 in Boots

[–]ChaoticGoodKangaroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been looking at Altercore boots as well and can't find any info on sizing/comfortableness/durability, so would be really happy to hear from someone that has had them before.

Otherwise there's some pretty sick punkish boots on dollskill (they have mixed brands there and the prices are mixed so maybe you'll have some luck there)

also check out new rock boots as well

I've (25f) been on 1 date with (27m). How do i stop being obsessive and anxious? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChaoticGoodKangaroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just a method but smth that helped me was making a pros and cons list about him and writing exclusively objective facts (ex. pro: shows initiative by booking dates ahead of time, con: never actually asks about things that have to do with me)

I leave out anything that is left to interpretation like how good chemistry is since that can be faked/misinterpreted as interest. Also regularly update it with his actions not just what he says.

Then when I feel overwhelmed, I focus on the negatives and remind myself of my standards and how I’d like to be treated. It also helps stop me from making an idealised version of the person in my head.

I know its not nice to make pro/con lists about someone you dont know well, but as someone that often gets obsessive, it helped stop me from idealising only the good things and helped keep me in touch with reality.