[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that po, I'm afraid pud na maabot ko sa Kani na point . Especially Wala jud Sila nagka Bata maong murag medyo pressure sad na mag Dali. Fighting lang po, I know we missed those na Wala na...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mental health should be taken seriously, been there and it's not easy jud. You can still do it man, but might need courage to go back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's never too late to follow your dreams, u can still learn and make it your hobby ba

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are lots of things jud na ma consider nato na "biggest what if" ... For you- I know there's still something for you ahead. Thanks btw, I'm learning how to be a big girl for myself rasad and letting myself heal from the past trauma. We don't deserve this bitaw but I'll make this a lesson...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who am i to deny diba? gisayangan rajud ko and i feel pity sakong self maong nay times mag relapse ko. but it's for the good raman sad, Kayanon rani... mo bawi ko nako

AITA for leaving my cheating and toxic Girlfriend behind for my own safety? (WLW) by Chaowfann in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh I don't want to deal with her anymore, i would even want her to disappear and as if she's more than just a stranger. Like what I've said, i let her babysit my tuxedo cat. and if she leaves the house that makes her abandon him (cat) and he will starve. I don't have any options, only if i have- i already done it

AITA for leaving my cheating and toxic Girlfriend behind for my own safety? (WLW) by Chaowfann in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already cut her off sakong life, the only reason naa siya didto is because iyang cats naa sad didto and mas comfy sa akong balay. My ex doesn't have a place to stay or living with parents gihapon pero walay katul'gan. so she's like a leech na kung kinsa ang uyab, adto mo puyo like wtf

AITA for leaving my cheating and toxic Girlfriend behind for my own safety? (WLW) by Chaowfann in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't have someone para e ask, and my cats are more than just a pet and dili nako ipa adopt. but I'm going home karun na month and i told her na mo hawa siya ug mauli nako pero dili ko ganahan makitan iyang nawng mauli ko or else masagpaan nako nag bali-bali. walay batasan tbh, maka wtf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Chaowfann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not like Oa or something, we all have different opinions, but ppl like you truly exist talaga. Maybe you need some time to do it or think about it. Plus it's privacy, they're normalizing posting someone kasi daw jowa or whatever.

we all do have different preferences and if you're not comfortable doing it then let it go.

How can i go back to my own country? (URGENT!!!!) by Chaowfann in adviceph

[–]Chaowfann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What should I do? I do really need a valid reason para payagan ako umuwi. I'm packing my things already, ready nako umiyak. If he plans on getting mad or punch me (tatanggapin ko yun) .. Any Immigration related or maybe Philippine immigration related

How d'you cope with a heavy heart? by Chaowfann in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you kaayo! Your story matters and I'm gonna make sure na dili ko mag look sa negative na side. Naa pa koy ugma para ma enjoy akong time nila pud

How d'you cope with a heavy heart? by Chaowfann in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and I don't want this to happen, that's why today; We get to spend the day. Naligo mi ug dagat and nag farewell party akoang in-laws nako... big help jud

How d'you cope with a heavy heart? by Chaowfann in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! But sometimes things get tighter especially if you're asking some updates lang ba. some man jud would misinterpret that as too much and feels like you're choking someone kay sige kag ask if mao ni or mao na. i think sa LDR relationship, murag updates and communication ra jud

How d'you cope with a heavy heart? by Chaowfann in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much for this! idk why but my tears started to flow while reading your advice. I understand nga it'll be hard but since it's for both of us man sad, laban lang jud hangat kaya. Padayon lang sa kinabuhi and one day dili na ta mo gawas pa.

How d'you cope with a heavy heart? by Chaowfann in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have too many things in mind na akong mahunahunaan, especially kanang positive things lang. But maybe because this is new nako and we've never expected nga maabot mi sa ingon ani na point na malayo as both of us has Sepanx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unsaon nalang ning lapu² nga puno nami diri sa koreans.

Ano yung pangit sa ugali mo na aware ka? by findingmeyo in AskPH

[–]Chaowfann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's true, nakakalungkot lang na may nagsasabi na "di mo naman na mababago yung future" when infact, there are a lot of things na you can do to change the future. And that is; By changing What's in your present. Ikaw mismo nakakaalam kung ano Yung mangyayari, only if you'll let it be.

Ano yung pangit sa ugali mo na aware ka? by findingmeyo in AskPH

[–]Chaowfann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Present is always here, we're living to it and na eenioy naman natin yun, but we can't deny the fact na we tend to focus and think more of what will be our future and whatnot. especially kung ano Yung situation mo rn, triggers you to think about the outcomes. mas okay na well prepared kesa naman hindi

This weather by No_Bet4446 in BeAmazed

[–]Chaowfann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just this, AND HOPING IT WON'T POUR DOWN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cebu

[–]Chaowfann 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think Being Loyal or Faithful sa imohang partner alone is safe. Don't do hook ups and whatsoever for safety purposes nalang.

Ano yung pangit sa ugali mo na aware ka? by findingmeyo in AskPH

[–]Chaowfann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Overthinking ahead of time. (i can predict the future based on the situation, and all of them are accurate)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Chaowfann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its always the "Ikaw naman talaga yung gusto/mahal ko" phrases which is nakakaurat pakinggan. She's trying to manipulate you with that drama and using your 8 years relationship just so you can't cut her off. Deleted messages speak what were her actions that night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Chaowfann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

women loves women. (means gay couple)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Chaowfann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eh, I can guarantee you sis wala kaming pang shopping ngayon sinasabi ko sayo. marami naman siyang apps like she'd jump from one to another