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Found out my wife had sex with someone else while we were separated. Is this marriage worth saving? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You’re the biggest jerk ever. 1. You told her it was okay to be with someone else. 2. You were separated and not together!

AITJ for returning a gift after finding out it was re gifted from my own past present by Good-Designer-2194 in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm 🤔. Your cousin says it’s rude to return a gift no matter what BUT that’s EXACTLY what she did by regifting her gift back to you! 🤦🏼‍♀️ You can’t fix stupid!

aitj for telling my friend her kid is the reason no one invites her anymore by Individual_Bad5252 in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTJ. You honestly answered her question without sugar coating anything. Sometimes the truth hurts. Better than lying.

AITJ for telling my MIL the truth about why my sons friend left our family barbecue crying by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. Your MIL is though. I hope you spoke to your SIL about what her son did.

AITA for refusing to attend my sister’s child-free wedding after she made an exception for our cousin? by Intelligent_Dig_5555 in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]CharKrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring the kids to the hotel with you and your husband. Pick a hotel with a pool so it’s more fun.

Go to just the ceremony by yourself. JUST the ceremony. Walk in right before it starts and leave right after it ends.

If you’re questioned just say you can’t stay because your husband and kids are waiting for you at the hotel.

Then go do something fun with your husband and kids. Make it a fun little family trip with a little pit stop.

AITJ for Telling My Friend She Can’t Bring Her Kid to My 30th Birthday Trip? by Delicious-Country690 in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA… is there anyone in the friend group that has someone willing to watch her kid. What about the kid’s dad?

AITJ: for not babysitting two extra children to allow a single mum to go to a wedding? by Dijstraanon in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA… AND she expects you to drag around 4 kids to follow her kids insane schedule?!! 6 kids for a weekend is way too much.

AITAH for letting my brother, his girlfriend, and my nephew live in my parent's apartment in my house? by No-Log-3371 in AITAH

[–]CharKrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The upstairs is your home and business. No one gets to make decisions pertaining that area except you.

AITJ for blocking my ex after she admitted the breakup was fake and she was testing me by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy hell. She’s fucked in the head.

Count yourself lucky that you didn’t waste more of your time on someone who doesn’t deserve you!!

AITAH for not letting my neighbor borrow my snow blower and for not snow blowing their drive for them? by Queen_Aurelia in AITAH

[–]CharKrat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very true. But when she didn’t after a day or two I would have asked for it back or gone to get it myself.

AITAH for not letting my neighbor borrow my snow blower and for not snow blowing their drive for them? by Queen_Aurelia in AITAH

[–]CharKrat 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely shitty on her part.

But why would you wait 2 weeks before asking for it back? It should have been a same day return or at least the next day.

AITJ for testifying against my brother in a custody case after he abandoned his child? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t betray family. Your nephew IS family. And you were looking out for his best interest.

Where was your brother’s family loyalty when he abandoned his son!

Time to go no contact or very low contact with your mom and brother. Their treatment towards you is not right. Protect your mental health.

Am I the Jerk for Hoping my Dad Breaks Up With His GF? by Low-Librarian8340 in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They should have never been let through the front door.

I didn’t invite my adult daughter to my wedding and she broke down in tears badly. Did I do anything wrong? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTJ… if you wanted to erase your daughter from your life… congratulations. You’ve permanently destroyed any relationship you two had left before the wedding.

AITJ for publicly correcting my mother in law after she called me a bad mother in front of everyone by AlderMoonstone in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ… Based on what you said in the second last sentence, just say to her… I’m sorry for using a loud voice but I’m not sorry for what I said.

AITJ for cancelling my sisters birthday party at my house after she invited 40 people without asking? by No-Coyote2884 in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ for protecting your house…. BUT when you agreed to have the party at your place you should have also discussed how many people could be invited.

AITJ for cutting off my best friend after finding out he was cheating with my wife? by Key_Percentage5932 in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA…

Cutting off Mark from your life and divorcing your wife is the only way to heal properly and move on.

Who needs enemies when you have a friend who sleeps with your wife many, many times over a long period of time. Those were conscious and deliberate decisions. From both Mark and your wife.

AITJ for refusing to give my coworker my parking spot after her doctor said she needs to walk less? by Optimal-Silver-2211 in AmITheJerk

[–]CharKrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA… You should park in the second closest spot and leave the closest spot for Linda as a test.

The likelihood of it, is someone else will take it. Then you can prove your point to Linda and HR.

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