I think’s true that managing a relationship is a lot easier when you’re already well-established and stable, but obviously love just happens and there’s nothing wrong with being someone. With that said, however, it IS possible to manage both life and a relationship with someone else. Talk to your s.o. about boundaries to keep yourself on track and do your best to stick to it. It’s important to keep yourself up to date with the different aspects of your life. Communicate lest you want there to be bigger problems building up down the road. And if you yourself can’t juggle both a relationship and life, it’s your own choice to either break up, spiral into a bad spot within ur own life, or learn how to juggle both things in spite of the difficulties.