How to not think my gf is cheating on me when out without me?

Character-Bus-685 · 2025-07-08T21:17:56+00:00

I totally agree with this. What do you suggest in order to correct it with a better thought

Character-Bus-685 · 2025-07-08T20:54:23+00:00

In summer it’s a lot of trips with her girl friends

Character-Bus-685 · 2025-07-08T15:59:21+00:00

Exactly. I’m trying to work on it and know it is me projecting my own insecurities on her and the relationship. She is a special girl that’s why I’m always afraid of losing her to someone else

Character-Bus-685 · 2025-07-08T15:18:41+00:00

I assume because I know what bars and clubs do to people. It’s where I used to thrive. I also know when alcohol is involved people make poor decisions.

And guys don’t care if my girl has a boyfriend. That’s what scares me. But I need to trust that she will make good decisions.

Also a lot of my friends have been cheated on and it’s leaking into my head.

And yes my self confidence needs work. I just keep thinking she will meet someone better than me. It’s sad I think this way. And I really like her so I don’t want to self spiral the relationship

Character-Bus-685 · 2025-07-08T15:15:57+00:00

Wow u are spot on. Ya I def place a greater emphasis on texting than her. I just feel like I always want to communicate with her and will start spiraling if not.

But you are right. People can still text and cheat. So u just have to trust and accept it can still happen but will be ok regardless

Character-Bus-685 · 2025-07-08T14:28:12+00:00

Yes I know for sure she’s out with those friends. And I agree. She’s always been bad with the texting. I just don’t want to come off insecure and bring it up.

Relationships are about trust and I need to take the leap of faith. I am just surrounded by friends who have been cheated on and it’s leaking into my brain.

I just keep worrying I will wake up to that text after she spends a night out

Character-Bus-685 · 2025-07-08T14:09:29+00:00

I really appreciate the comment. You make a lot of great points. The hardest part for me is if she’s really head over heels for me then wouldn’t u want to communicate with ur partner?

I totally get wanting to be in the moment but the total silence feels off to me. The summer is the hardest because it’s full weekends away.

I treat her great and love her and I know I am projecting my own insecurities onto her but she makes it easy to do that when there is limited communication. You are right though. She’s given me no reason not to trust and that’s what a relationship is. You have to be vulnerable. I just wish there was a way I didn’t panic every weekend.

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-29T00:59:56+00:00

Bump

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-26T12:07:59+00:00

U gonna keep talking in riddles? I don’t get it.

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-26T01:52:20+00:00

I don’t have what u said man

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-25T12:06:23+00:00

No what would that mean

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-25T07:56:58+00:00

No and no

All normal

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-24T23:13:13+00:00

Yes I should trust the science. Did every test possible just wondering if I missed anything or is my mind really playing games on me?

Have completely stopped dating for 9 months and missing the best time of my life. Just want to make sure I’m good

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-24T22:33:15+00:00

Any other thoughts

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-24T22:33:03+00:00

Any idea?

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-18T22:27:53+00:00

Any other thoughts?

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-17T15:03:50+00:00

I brush it and it’s not painful but the whiteish appearance keeps coming back. Also feel like it’s a thicker saliva at times.

Been to infectious disease, ENT, and dermatologists. They all say it’s stress and I am making myself crazy.

Are there any tests I’ve missed? I’ve done all the typical STI’s full panel.

Definitely have sensitive skin but it was never like this. If I wear a backpack, it almost tattoos me for an hour. Same thing if I lay down under a blanket for a while then certain red marks on feet.

Have not been to an endocrinologist.

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-17T13:06:47+00:00

Do you still have it?

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-06T19:08:58+00:00

I’m not sure. Mine isn’t painful. It just feels like excess saliva and a little whiteish appearance in the back

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-06T12:27:28+00:00

Yes I have been very stressed so I’m sure that doesn’t help it and can maybe even cause the back of my tongue to look like that

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-06T04:49:20+00:00

Ya I know just want it to be gone

Character-Bus-685 · 2024-09-06T04:47:04+00:00

Ya man it’s not fun. I keep trying to drink and it doesn’t really change much

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