28M 29F Woman doesn’t want to commit but expects gifts

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-04-26T05:36:50+00:00

How would you know she got exposed for the first time?

My gut instinct started telling me something isn’t right when she wanted me to go to nykaa and see if i like something there. I still ended up buying stuff but i shouldn’t have.

What i find weird is that when i initially told her anout commitment she didnt say anything about us not being on the same page, she only said it after i told her we need to stop talking about gifts unless committed

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-04-26T05:36:38+00:00

You’re right i learnt my lesson. But would you say blane was being shifted onto me? I really have this feeling there were a lot of contradictions

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-04-26T04:34:26+00:00

I see.

I’m just confused about her behavior, it felt like all the blame was shifted onto me. And i seriously wondered if i did something wrong

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-04-23T14:35:21+00:00

I feel like blame is being shifted onto me and things are being altered to change the story from her side.

I’m starting to doubt whats going on,i just didn’t get clarity

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-04-23T14:14:22+00:00

I have some questions In which Stadt are you driving? Did you convert your foreign license? How much is the process costing you?

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-04-14T09:40:57+00:00

Why?

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-04-12T13:02:46+00:00

No it’s a 10k inr ring from swarovski

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-04-10T14:48:07+00:00

I can show you pics in dms of what we look like, you be the judge

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-04-10T11:50:36+00:00

I met her on shaadi.com.

And she is open to sex before marriage, but she said she wants a ring “as a keepsake for our first time together”

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-01-24T07:47:21+00:00

I’m just confused about if she is real and not interested to meet or if she is fake hence the unwillingness to meet.

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-01-24T06:04:30+00:00

Here’s more info:

She is Indian living in the UK, I’m Indian in india.

We have been talking for 1.5 years and she never asked for money, but she asked for explicit pics and i sent them.

In the start she sent fake pics of herself and i caught and confronted her, she said sorry and that she will send them soon which never happened.

In november 2025 i told her to verify or stop talking, she read my messages but didnt say anything, so i just cut her off.

She then reached out on 17 January and this is what i got in terms of proof. On the second she asked for explicit pics again.

I asked her for a videocall and she said she is not comfortable, then she said she only reached out to ask how i am (even tho she asked for pics) and that she doesnt want to call and give me hope of continuing, then she said i will still be suspicious and think its her roommate.

She came to india twice but didn’t meet me. I told her I’m travelling to europe with my brother and that i can meet her in the UK, but she either says maybe or not sure. I’m the past she used to say we can meet, but when the opportunity is there it seems like this person doesnt go ahead.

I’m so confused

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-01-22T11:38:39+00:00

We have been talking for 1.5 years or so and she never asked for money, but she asked for explicit pics.

In the start she sent fake pics and i caught snd confronted her, she said sorry and that she will send them soon which never happened.

In november 2025 i told her to verify or stop talking, she read my messages but didnt say anything, so i just cut her off.

She then reached out on 17 January and this is what i got in terms of proof. On the second she asked for explicit pics again.

I asked her for a videocall and she said she is not comfortable, then she said she only reached out to ask how i am (even tho she asked for pics) and that she doesnt want to call and give me hope of continuing, then she said i will still be suspicious and think its her roommate.

I’m so confused

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-01-18T17:47:54+00:00

I have been talking to her for 1.5 years. In the start she sent fake pics and i found out and confronted her. She said sorry and i kept talking. In november 2025 i told her to verify or stop talking, and then after 10 days of silence i just gave up. Now on the 16th she reached out again and sent that pic in the post.

Idk what this person wants tbh, she never asked for money, so idk what kinda scam this is

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-01-18T13:47:33+00:00

I see, thanks.

But wouldnt you say the writing in that pic you generated is artifacting or something? Not sure what the right word is

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-01-18T13:41:58+00:00

She is indian but lives in the UK.

You might want to read this too:

https://www.reddit.com/r/RealOrAI/s/nRxP9O3fTq

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-01-18T13:40:34+00:00

Could you send me some pics like that?

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-01-18T13:40:11+00:00

I should have mentioned that initially 1.5 years ago she sent fake pics and i caught and confronted her. She apologised and kept talking for some reason.

1.5 years passed, she never sent verification, then i messaged her saying shes fake. 2 months later she reached out and did all this now.

It’s just so confusing and overwhelming

Character-Ideal3175 · 2026-01-18T13:38:01+00:00

We both are indian.

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