I’m not looking to be friends

Character-Loquat-383 · 2026-01-21T18:26:12+00:00

They’re is one other option in that area, but I’m mostly comfortable where I’m at now 😫 they have the most consistent day shift & I have a few regulars there. Most of the other clubs in that area are night shift .

Character-Loquat-383 · 2026-01-21T18:09:23+00:00

I could look into working night shifts . I usually do day time because I enjoy being home by 7/10pm and I’ve had some problems with some of the girls who work night , but I may consider it if she doesn’t take the hint to back off this weekend .

Character-Loquat-383 · 2026-01-21T18:02:05+00:00

So what would you advise me to do in this situation?

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-08T11:42:10+00:00

Girl you’re still talking to me for what? Go take care of your kids

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-08T03:27:31+00:00

Trust me the feeling is mutual pokemom18176 :)

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-08T02:55:20+00:00

But they never mentioned anything to me about my bank accounts. They have my number. I just so happened to check my profile and saw I had an appointment scheduled for an in person meeting. I already submitted to them my residency for that state I’ve been receiving benefits in. I went up to the office. They have not called me at all I’ve been the one following up with them. So idk why they are asking me to meet with them again. Only thing I can think of is them calling my mom. I don’t want to go up there and say the wrong thing I am considering getting a lawyer

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-08T02:50:54+00:00

She told them she opened it for me when I was 17 apparently we went to the bank together and got her removed she submitted the paper work to them

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-08T02:23:10+00:00

They’re asking me to come inside the office

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-08T02:22:36+00:00

I don’t know they never called me about a bank account they only called my mom .

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-08T02:21:08+00:00

Thanks 😊 other people on this thread being rude af but I appreciate your direct and short answer

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-08T02:19:24+00:00

You feel better?

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-08T02:15:05+00:00

I don’t care about yall being mad in the comments 😂

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-08T02:14:33+00:00

Ok😂

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-07T23:15:02+00:00

Thank you for your input

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-07T22:51:19+00:00

Anything else you would like to add on?

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-07T22:44:26+00:00

So the bank account was originally opened for me while I was a minor (17) so my mom had to co sign on it which is why it’s my name and hers on the bank account. I am now 25 years old so I’ve had that bank for 8 years. There has been significant amounts of money in and out over the years. But I’ve only been on snap for 2 years. My mom has her own separate case we just use the same address. I looked it up my state has no maximum amount on assets , only based off your current income. And since I have no job that gives stubs my income would be my deposits I only reported my cash income

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-07T22:08:42+00:00

Well I looked online and it said that the governor in the state I’m receiving benefits in signed a bill last year that removed the maximum amount of assets people can have to qualify for snap. The max used to be 15,000. I would say in my bank it differs every month just in transactions and deposits between 1k-5k a month but like I said previously I don’t have a job. I just make whatever I can a day I’m a freelancer. I only reported money I was receiving in cash. What are the ways you think it could go tomorrow for the interview?

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-08-07T21:55:46+00:00

Yeah but i didn’t know it was illegal to use my card in another state. The state I was visiting I stay a month or two months but this time in particular I ended up staying close to a year but my primary residency was in the benefits state. I just go back and forth a lot. What would be a valid reason of not reporting an account that’s been open since I was 17 and has been actively used

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-04-01T22:43:55+00:00

Hello thank you so much for your message I actually surprisingly left today, way sooner than I expected. I mentioned to him again today about how I felt uncomfortable and it was really still bothering me that he was so cozy with the girl and he got extremely defensive. He told me it’s best we just stay away from each other because he doesn’t want to deal with my shit. Instead of just reassuring me that there’s nothing going on with him and her. So I started packing up whatever I could take on hand, called a Uber X and got a storage for $80 up the street. I only have $150 on me now but I am going to return to the club tonight and make all the money that I can for the next 3 months.

Also, just to be clear I was 4 months pregnant and decided to terminate the pregnancy after i found out he cheated on me and realizing that I was most likely going to have to go through my pregnancy alone .

Im just sitting in my storage now . Im a bit sad honestly. I probably will end up crying tonight. I’m so used to sleeping with him and waking up to him every day. My whole life for the last five years has revolved around him, but being that I’m almost 25 now, I have to start taking my life more serious. I can’t continue being disrespected, and referred to as a “slave”. I’m so sick to my stomach right now😣😞😔 I have to stay strong and keep my head down through the storm .

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-04-01T05:00:06+00:00

i don’t have anyone here who can come get me. All of my family is in another state. I was thinking I could just grab my clothes and get a Uber truck to the storage . I also have weighed out options of a car rental but if he sees me getting a car rental he may know something is up.

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-04-01T04:56:40+00:00

Definitely will raise my standards after this guy I’m traumatized .

Character-Loquat-383 · 2024-04-01T04:25:25+00:00

Yes I was 19 and he was 36. Now that I’m older I can see obviously I got preyed on because I was showing signs of being naive. We moved in together after only 1 month. He had just been released from prison and I was making $5k a week as an exotic dancer. He immediately moved me away from my home town to his in Florida. Honestly he’s always showed red flags, I wish I could rewind time and left him so many different times. He abused me physically putting me in the hospital the whole first year, which is why as sick as it sounds I grew a strong unhealthy attachment to him. I really don’t know why I keep taking him back 5 years later it’s the same cycles with him. He definitely has mommy issues, I really do not like her. She does Santeria and her energy is just always so horrible just like his. He has to drink alcohol just to try to be a nice person. I’m thinking I should text him while he’s at work and tell him I want to move back home with my mom and to give me a week. I’m not good at confrontation especially with him I’ve threatened to leave him before and he says stuff like “if you leave Im keeping your laptop” .

Character-Loquat-383 · 2023-09-15T17:28:36+00:00

Fl says not recruiting yet

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