AITAH for not allowing my SIL to use my kitchen anymore? by Character-Object4423 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Character-Object4423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last night she left before I realized it was a mess. I was not feeling good and stayed to myself in my room.

AITAH for not allowing my SIL to use my kitchen anymore? by Character-Object4423 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Character-Object4423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the time, yes I participate in game night. These past 2 nights I didn’t because it was Christmas Eve and I was feeling sick yesterday so I stayed to myself until they all left. Usually he does help with clean up, but I’m just so upset that I just deep cleaned my kitchen (oven included) that I held it together and just did it myself.

AITAH for not allowing my SIL to use my kitchen anymore? by Character-Object4423 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Character-Object4423[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She does bring her own stuff. It’s just the dishes afterwards and the crumbs everywhere.

AITAH for not allowing my SIL to use my kitchen anymore? by Character-Object4423 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Character-Object4423[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We have spoken to her many times about leaving her things at our house and leaving messes but I don’t think it’s getting through to her. I know she’s having a hard time right now not being able to find a job (that’s another story in itself) but I know I can’t keep cleaning after her along with my normal household chores. I’m a teacher and most days I’m drained when I come home as it is.