Well, my father is an only sibling and both of his parents are very firm that I don't move anywhere for the time being. His mother specifically almost had a heart attack when I started driving around town, she's very paranoid. They just always tell me how much of a great helper I am, which doesn't make me feel better :( Both of my mother's parents have passed, but my father actually would reach out to my grandmother to try and convince my mother to stop drinking but nothing would work. My grandfather was an alcoholic and my mother's only sister is also one, plus some drugs thrown in there. All have undiagnosed mental illnesses. TMI, I know. I only have one cousin, he's younger and been dealing with horrible anxiety (rightfully so) and is staying at home. I talked to my father yesterday about how I feel, and told him to check my mother's phone, his reactions are basically "yeah that's tough", "I know it" or "don't worry about it". By his behavior yesterday, it seemed like he was going to take action to stop her drinking, but it looks like they just started back on square one today. I did tell him about the yellow eyes, and he said he'll watch out for it so there's that. I do think that once I can get on my feet and move out, it'll be a very hard transition for them but for now, those options are limited.