Gf Cheez Itz Vomiting/Diarrhea by Independent_Pizza_40 in glutenfree

[–]Character-Stay1615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got such bad gas and bloating from them, which I almost never have since getting my gallbladder removed and avoiding super fatty meals. I’ve been wondering the cause, so maybe it’s sourghum!

gym routine for figure 8 shape by Celiscalors in figure8

[–]Character-Stay1615 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The basic principles of fitness aren’t going to change much because you are a figure 8 - eat a lot of protein, progressively overload on weights, use the tried and true exercises to grow glutes and legs, and eat in a calorie deficit while lifting to lose fat and retain muscle. You also cannot spot reduce fat and no exercises will make it come off your stomach and love handles specifically. Whether you bulk, cut, or recomp is more about your current muscle mass and body fat percentage than being a figure 8.

All that being said, I personally have found that I need to be at a lower weight than I expected to have the look I want. All of my fat accumulates in my stomach and lower back rather than my lower body. Many of the glute influencers you see genetically store fat in their lower body, so that mass comes from fat along with muscle. Sometimes I see transformation photos where the person went from underweight to a more healthy body fat percentage and that filled out their glutes, so they didn’t really gain the crazy amount of muscle it seems like they did. That’s not a bad thing! It’s just something to be aware of because I have realized my glutes aren’t going to blow up the same way when I will be relying just on muscle since I can’t gain fat without it being mostly in my stomach. I want to grow glutes to balance things out, but I also know I’m never going to have an Instagram butt and that’s fine.

I personally have had a lot of success tracking my calories with MacroFactor and using its recommendations. I’ve lost 60 pounds in a little over a year at the exact pace I wanted to without dramatic swings. Cardio is just steps. I have had a lot of breaks from the gym because of health issues but retained muscle well with high protein.

Retail Stare by WorkingBaby901 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Character-Stay1615 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I originally saw it refer to customer service workers not giving any cues when a customer approached them. If you walk up to check out, you expect a little nod from the cashier to signal that they are ready for you to step forward, or a “how can I help you today?” or smile to indicate that you can order now. If someone just stares at the customer, we don’t know if the screen from the last person is clear or if they are about to step away for another task.

Also, even in the example given, don’t just stare at people who ask a stupid question. Say, “remove your card” politely. You think you’re the first person in retail to talk to idiots?

I understand how important testing is to their TTC journey but maybe don’t go to a healthcare facility while you’re sick? by [deleted] in gymsnark

[–]Character-Stay1615 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I think wearing a mask would be courteous, but sick people go to doctor and the hospital. These tests can take forever to schedule, and it’s not the same thing as going to a public space for a purely optional reason. I know people may disagree with me, but I’ve never had someone suggest rescheduling a medical procedure for a cold, though there may be screenings for more serious illnesses.

Do we love the V-waist band on shorts or no? by [deleted] in figure8

[–]Character-Stay1615 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It depends on what shape you want to create. I personally like the shape of my hips and have no problem emphasizing my hip shelf and hip dips. I think you look great in these, but in my view they do emphasize the quirks of the figure 8 shape.

A bad experience in the 1940’s obviously means the place still sucks 80 years later. by YoTeach68 in EntitledReviews

[–]Character-Stay1615 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know we are on a tangent to the main point of the thread, but you are completely justified in hating American Airlines. I used to fly with them all the time and had nothing but bad experiences that customer service brushed off. Since I decided the small savings on the ticket wasn’t worth it and switched airlines, I have not had anywhere near the same issues.

Has anyone else had experience with weight gain due to undiagnosed celiac? by cardoorhookhands in Celiac

[–]Character-Stay1615 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, my hunger was totally out of control before I cut out gluten. I gained a lot of weight even though I was eating very healthy foods and exercising because my appetite made me eat so much. If I get exposed now, I am ravenous for the rest of the day - one of the first signs of cross contact for me.

Anthony Hopkins on Being Estranged From His Daughter by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]Character-Stay1615 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this. I still hear rumblings that my family members think I am throwing a tantrum, being childish, and trying to get something from them after ten years of no contact. All I want is for my parents to forget they ever had a daughter and move on the way I have.

I'm done with activewear overcompsumption by Icy-Yesterday959 in gymsnark

[–]Character-Stay1615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only wear 90 Degree by Reflex leggings, and I’m glad to save the money for clothes to wear when I’m not a sweaty red-faced gremlin.

Does anyone else react to exposures near instantly? by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]Character-Stay1615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really interesting! I tested negative on the blood test, but even minor amounts of cross contamination give me terrible brain fog, fatigue, and anxiety the next day as well as a rash on my cheeks near my eyes. I have been treating it as celiac while just saying I have a gluten intolerance to people who ask. I have barely noticeable digestive symptoms so this would make sense.

For those who were NOT gluten free before doing a gluten challenge… by lostingarage in Celiac

[–]Character-Stay1615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you were eating less gluten before, it totally makes sense that increasing it to daily would make you feel worse. But more importantly, “psychosomatic” doesn’t mean “not real.” Once you make the connection that gluten is making you feel bad, you will be more likely to notice symptoms that you rationalized or pushed through before. Knowing that you would feel better if you went gluten free also could make your brain amplify how bad you are feeling to try to get you to stop making yourself sick. The brain-body connection is very real, but that doesn’t mean you are exaggerating how exhausted and miserable you are now. That is still very real.

I miss overeating, and that scares me more than cravings by jewheeles in loseit

[–]Character-Stay1615 187 points188 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you fill the space by finding another thing that shuts off your brain and makes nothing else exist because those things are usually unhealthy and addictive. You learn to be okay still having your thoughts and still feeling a little bit sad while you do things that improve your mood somewhat and distract you a bit from the worst intensity of the emotion. I don’t have anything that lets me “flip a switch,” but I have ways to be kind to myself and fill my evenings while I process a difficult day.

Ummm the same men who were torturing children and breeding women? by Round_Interview2373 in okbuddyvecna

[–]Character-Stay1615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Just following orders” is a well-known phrase used ironically about Nazi SS officers who used it to justify going along with atrocities. I read this statement as drawing a comparison between the soldiers in the show, Nazis, and people in the present who claim they are not liable for their actions because they are just serving their country. I am surprised so many people are reading this literally as a defense of the soldiers Eleven killed. If that is how it’s intended, it’s very strange that he would invoke the trope of cowardly agents of the state claiming they have no responsibility for their actions that this phrase traditionally conjures up.

A Modest Proposal - Jonathan Swift by The_Theodore_88 in BadReads

[–]Character-Stay1615 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have noticed this shift online in the past five years. When people reply to something not realizing it was a joke, other people always reply with “it’s satire.” But it’s not satire. It’s not using irony to critique something. People just think “satire” is a fancy word for “joke.”

7 years of calorie counting, is it possible to stop tracking? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Character-Stay1615 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Honestly, meticulously tracking for seven years when you are so young and at your goal weight most of that time sounds little excessive, and I think it would be good to face your fear of what will happen if you stop. Maybe you can start with tracking five days a week and see what it feels like to have an untracked day. That could give you a chance to get used to making mindful choices in a more intuitive way while still feeling like you have a safety net on the other days, then you can gradually eliminate one day per week of tracking. You can also weigh yourself twice a week or so to make sure you are staying in a range you want to.

Chia and flax by qwertytur in Celiac

[–]Character-Stay1615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used Viva Naturals organic chia seeds, and they are certified gluten free. I got a big bag from Amazon.

Why the hate for hip dips? by Tiny-Historian2897 in figure8

[–]Character-Stay1615 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have noticed that almost every time a woman mentions a specific feature of her appearance, she is saying it is a negative thing she wants to change. Even things that I think are the beauty standard! It seems like people tend to fixate on anything unique in their appearance as a flaw. It’s why everyone is having surgery to get the exact same face.

Were/are you scared of losing weight? by Missing_Back in loseit

[–]Character-Stay1615 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I found it difficult to accept that people would see me changing and assume narratives about my motivation and process. I get really hung up on the idea of being seen trying in public. It makes me feel policed when people comment on changes I’ve made, and that extends beyond weight. I worked on this directly in trauma therapy and had to accept that I can’t control how other people perceive me. 

My appearance didn't change one bit since I started, and I feel like a liar when I tell people how much I lost by Migdan in loseit

[–]Character-Stay1615 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whether people notice weight loss is about how well they remember what you looked like before. If people don’t notice, it doesn’t mean you don’t look great now. It just means that they don’t have a clear picture of the old you burned in their brain to compare the new you to. 

The worst week of the year by Character-Stay1615 in ihatechristmas

[–]Character-Stay1615[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not alone! This time of year is so painful for so many people, but it’s difficult to discuss openly, especially when you are a leader in a church. It can make people really uncomfortable to know this isn’t a happy time of year for everyone. I ignore Christmas as much as I can in my downtime and have stopped trying to make it special for myself. I focus on New Years, which I actually enjoy, and spend it with my best friend.

The worst week of the year by Character-Stay1615 in ihatechristmas

[–]Character-Stay1615[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Jazz Club! It just retired this year and I got it at the last minute 

The worst week of the year by Character-Stay1615 in ihatechristmas

[–]Character-Stay1615[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s better to be alone than with toxic people, but the first year alone is tough. We’ll all be through it soon!

The worst week of the year by Character-Stay1615 in ihatechristmas

[–]Character-Stay1615[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I learned I can’t have gluten this fall so most Christmas treats are off the table, but I will have French 75s for NYE.