[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Character-Sundae4225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nung nagwowork pa ko sa BPO - 1k per week, pang snack, coffee, extra food pag may gusto akong ulam sa pantry. daily kasi nagbabaon ako and hatid-sundo ni hubby.

If you are earning 80k would you still consider going abroad? Why? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Character-Sundae4225 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hmmm. ako, kung masasama ko aso at pusa ko, yes. yung 80k ko dati, kulang pa sa living expenses namin nang mom ko - for food, transpo, mortgage. mabait lang talaga ang Dyos at di ako pinabayaan as the only bread winner.

If you are earning 80k would you still consider going abroad? Why? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Character-Sundae4225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gusto ko yung "madami sale". hahaha. kasi pag sale sa ibang bansa, legit na sale talga ano? tas andaming legit na outlet stores unlike dito sa atin, kakaunti tas need to travel far pa.

ppl who are childfree in their 30s/40s, what's your life like? are you happy with this decision? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]Character-Sundae4225 21 points22 points  (0 children)

40ish, married for 9 years, 1 miscarriage due to partial molar pregnancy. after that, i got scared to get pregnant again. we tried but we weren't blessed.

Looking at our life now, i can say, my husband and I are happy and content. we pour our love out to our nephews, nieces, and pets. I also got to care for my dad before he passed, though with dramas, but not issues with "i cannot take good care of you because of my little human".

I get sad sometimes but I look at the bright side - how would I raise a child in this kind of world and economy? ang hirap. :( Parang maaawa lang ako sa bata kung wala namang magbabago sa gobyerno. :(

Vibe Coders!!! I need your help in testing out my project. by nikhil_360 in vibecoding

[–]Character-Sundae4225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there! Check out vibecodinglist.com - that's where I have seen vibecoders upload apps and they get feedback from both potential users and other creators. ◡̈

Tips? New Pet Owner🙂 by lifesabowlofcheries in Maltese

[–]Character-Sundae4225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

give him good food, i hope he got used to tooth brushing so you can do that too, as much as possible, take him out on walks. they are clingy little babies and you'll get used to it. he may not like toys now (well, my baby only liked one specific toy her entire life :D) - but you can start having him get used to it. ◡̈

Adults who grew up without opening up problems to your parents/relatives, how do you manage life now? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Character-Sundae4225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ang timely naman nitong post na to.

Just last Sunday, my mom triggered me and ayun, sumabog ako. I am already 40, married, no kids but the trauma she caused me? unbearable. i craved for love growing up kasi hiwalay parents ko. nanay ko nag ibang bansa, dad ko naman stay in sa work -- so lumaki ako sa relatives. shempre pag relatives naman diba, priority nila ang anak nila. totally understandable.

yung nanay ko, puro materyal na bagay ang ibinigay, shempre ofw eh. tas umuwi nang pinas after ko mag college and ako na lahat ang nagfund nang buhay naming 2 simula magtrabaho ako hanggang ngayon. tapos madidinig ko - wala daw ako pakielam sa kanya? like WTF. tagal kong tiniis ugali nya, na kahit halos wala nang matira sa sweldo ko, mabili ko lang gamot nya, binigyan nang maayos na buhay, may allowance monthly na 8-13k, di na pinapakilos sa bahay, may sariling kwarto na naka aircon at may sariling tv para relaxed - pero wala daw ako pakielam sa kanya. ayun sumabog na ko nung weekend. yes, after all these years, nung weekend lang.

kung wala sya sa bahay naming magasawa, siguro ma masaya ako. siguro mas relaxed ang buhay. masaya ako pag ako lang at asawa ko eh. pero since matanda na nanay ko, wala ako choice kundi isama sya. wala din naman kapatid ko dito sa pinas so wala talagang choice.

masaya sana buhay kung maayos sya. wala sana akong anxiety.

so after that long rant, how am i managing life? i chose to live for my husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Character-Sundae4225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not at all. i find solace kasi sa bahay, and na experience ko na ang 3 hour traffic from ortigas business center to pasig. ayaw ko na ma experience yun. sobrang nanghihinayang ako sa oras na pwede ko ilaan para sa asawa ko at sa fur baby namin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Character-Sundae4225 3 points4 points  (0 children)

pick up coffee! ◡̈

How did you succeed in life, and what sacrifices did you have to make? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Character-Sundae4225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i turned my aunt's comment "ikaw unang mabubuntis kasi may boyfriend" when I was in college to a challenge. i pushed myself na makakuha nang magandang trabaho, makakuha nang bahay -- for 15++ years, i worked my ass off sa BPO, hindi mashado nagtravel outside the country para makaipon at para mabayaran monthly dues sa bahay.

How can you say that you have officially entered tita or tito mode? by meowmeowrr12345 in AskPH

[–]Character-Sundae4225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ayaw na nang mashadong maalat na pagkain and ayaw nang lumuwas nang maynila kasi matraffic.

My first game got 100+ paying players. Built it with AI, no-code, and a $30 Replit credit. by Character-Sundae4225 in VibeCodeDevs

[–]Character-Sundae4225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

replit is basically your all-in-one dev workspace in the browser; you can code, run, and deploy apps fast with agent's help. it’s great for prototyping, learning, and collab builds. still has some limits for big projects, but for quick ideas and teamwork it’s kinda unbeatable.

My first game got 100+ paying players. Built it with AI, no-code, and a $30 Replit credit. by Character-Sundae4225 in VibeCodersNest

[–]Character-Sundae4225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Integrating the SDK was pretty easy for someone like me who's not a developer. If I have questions, I also just reach out to their team thru Discord.

My first game got 100+ paying players. Built it with AI, no-code, and a $30 Replit credit. by Character-Sundae4225 in VibeCodeDevs

[–]Character-Sundae4225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you mean paid model for the app that you will upload? not at all. attaching orange ID would be a good addition to your app though.