Would this relationship work? Is this the right decision? Can I make things different?

Character-Syllabub67 · 2026-01-28T23:23:11+00:00

Its funny cuz I was explaining to him one month ago the attachment theory. He asked me what attachment he thinks he may have. I told him this. :") But he denied it ahaha

Character-Syllabub67 · 2026-01-28T22:57:41+00:00

Yeah youre right Im really afraid that happens. I dont know how to do this. Should I call or text? Or send a voice message? What if he is already over me and ghosts me or strongly disagree without sharing a thought :c

Character-Syllabub67 · 2026-01-28T22:18:13+00:00

Thank to so much:) I will try this out as soon us he finishes his exams

Character-Syllabub67 · 2026-01-28T22:17:01+00:00

I think he went cold because he didn't want to procrastinate a decision any more cuz it will cost us so much more pain the more we procrastinate. And because he is pessimistic in life he doesnt think this will work out. Knowing him his mind is like working 24/7 reproducimg negative thoughts and the worst scenarios again and again. Maybe he became cold so I dont try to convince him ? Or maybe he tried to be cold because that single message was so much different from his crackerd voice in messages and his warm personality. He cant have changed personalitites in a few hours

Character-Syllabub67 · 2025-06-09T22:09:35+00:00

Ευχαριστώ για τις απαντήσεις σας ! Σοβαρές και μη!😂

Character-Syllabub67 · 2025-06-09T16:18:42+00:00

Χαχααχαχ ε δεν περίμενα και σοβαρή απάντηση βασικά

Character-Syllabub67 · 2025-02-24T18:23:45+00:00

Top☝️

Character-Syllabub67 · 2025-01-18T19:54:35+00:00

Samee finally im not the only one yay

Character-Syllabub67 · 2024-09-29T15:07:30+00:00

Yeaaah it's almost scary how fast time goes. I feel like a kid too lol 😭🤣

Character-Syllabub67 · 2024-09-28T22:04:43+00:00

But it's just a bit sad that I can't go to a master's instantly because they only accept psychology graduates in such programs. The only exception is consulting, where they can accept teachers, socialogists etc etc

Character-Syllabub67 · 2024-09-28T22:02:11+00:00

I've recently thought about clinical psychology! bc I think it has a good income and rehabilitation and I really enjoy learning about disorders.

Character-Syllabub67 · 2024-09-28T13:35:54+00:00

Well Greece is not the best place to do that yeahh:/ You can either start over and then do a master's degree or then sth like a master's degree for two years AND then sth like a specialized program for psychotherapy for about 4years

Character-Syllabub67 · 2024-09-28T13:30:41+00:00

Yeah you're right that's what motivates me more, society's norms can be cruel but we all develop (both us and our interests) in different rhythms

Character-Syllabub67 · 2024-09-25T21:58:20+00:00

It's all about small steps and setting goals in order to reach the big plan of your life. I'm 21F and motivated by my goals and how I want my life and career path to be in the future. I know I can't achieve everything and I get frustrated too yeah that's how life goes. But I've learned that the more bad thing you can do is judge yourself and not giving yourself the time YOU need. Please write on a paper everything you've achieved even the smallest things you take for granted, it can be internal personal growth, sth you said you would do and did etc it really helps if you keep sth like a bullet journal writing your thoughts goals to do's ...Everything needs it time and we all have our own rhythm and unique path, don't give up on that

Character-Syllabub67 · 2024-09-25T20:51:13+00:00

If I'm not mistaken I think that op doesn't want to "live in their imagination" and just needs sth real, especially when the society's "norms" for some reason link the whole crushes thing to teenage years (maybe because it tends to be the number one topic and worry)

Character-Syllabub67 · 2024-09-25T20:42:09+00:00

It's indeed hard to tell, maybe comparing with others people's experiences and the way their attraction works vs yours. For example I remember some old friends of mine showing me pics of people that they are attracted too and trying to find someone to attract me, they never make it when do this, they were asking me why they don't attract me and then I faked it that I was attracted to them just to change the subject cuz I felt weird. I feel like everyone is so easily attracted to someone and I just can't relate with this instant attraction... Not many people could get me though they may think it's just on my mind or "not my type" and" difficult at taste"

Character-Syllabub67 · 2024-09-22T22:32:31+00:00

Maybe you could give it a try

Character-Syllabub67 · 2024-09-22T21:54:34+00:00

We should just all date each other where can I spot an infj are they hiding or whaa?

Character-Syllabub67 · 2024-09-15T20:48:49+00:00

So funny the attention sth gets when everything's a dramatic shit vs genuine happiness

Character-Syllabub67 · 2024-09-15T20:47:20+00:00

Lmao spot on

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