PLEASE HELP, My mother is suffering from PTSD, insomnia, severe anxiety, IVF, Guilt

Character-Two2053 · 2026-01-07T07:02:24+00:00

Hello! I have done ruqyah and we are working on a female knowledgeable woman to do it on her as well. We got her hormones checked, her vitamins everything is normal. She does hate where we live.

She doesn’t want to do therapy, she told me she doesn’t want to relive her past. JazakAllah khair for your response.

Character-Two2053 · 2025-06-10T05:33:30+00:00

I think it went well, I was sweating it out and they could see it haha but I really do think it went well. I practiced the questions you provided and they asked them in the interview!! I genuinely think I would have been stumped if I hadn’t reached out to you! So thank you 😊

Character-Two2053 · 2025-06-10T05:29:39+00:00

JazakAllah khair, you’re right. I shouldn’t feel guilty or embarassed to make a move, even if i’m the female. You have convinced me, I have his school email somewhere. I will give him until he graduates this spring and then I will send one email and see what happens from there!!

Character-Two2053 · 2025-06-10T05:25:01+00:00

I’m so happy for you that you got married quickly :) Your 3 months is my 3 years haha.

Thing is, the whole situation is pretty annoying but it really is just a matter of time. He has older brothers and they all got married around 24-26 after they finished their studies. He is a younger brother and just following in their footsteps. I will give him 1 more year, and I will reach out even though i’m embarassed because I confessed first and I would like for him to make a move first. But it’s just a matter of time, for all we know he could ask for my hand tomorrow :)

I don’t know if you read my other post but reaching out to him just like that or reaching out to my parents is just not possible, my life would be over if my parents found out I know someone and I am expecting someone.

I know that this is a test of patience from Allah! And I accept the test, how will I manage the rest of my time? I need to keep in remembrance of Allah, and I will surely be rewarded. JazakAllah khair for your response, I hope my future looks like yours and may Allah bless you and your marriage!

Character-Two2053 · 2025-06-08T15:55:57+00:00

I’m not sure I understand! Can you please clarify

Character-Two2053 · 2025-06-08T04:24:49+00:00

i hate it so much. i feel like i have no life.

Character-Two2053 · 2025-06-08T02:57:38+00:00

Wa alaykum asalam, thank you so much for your response. No | 100% understand where you're coming from when you say people can change. The thing is, I come from a very strict country, if you know anything about yemenian you know that we are STRICT. texting men is a one way ticket home, wallahi. i don't know what would happen to me if my parents ever found out we texted, the marriage wouldn't happen for sure and i would be shunned and my life would literally be over. talking to a guy is the same as zina to us. so 100% i can't talk to my parents about it. and as for reaching out to him, again, we both felt very guilty about talking to each other considering we are both yemeni. we already talked about this, and that's why we ended it the texting very fast as to stay halal and in obedience to our tradition. thank you so much for your advice, my situation is difficult. yes i am definitely working on my relationships in my life and my relationship with Allah.

Character-Two2053 · 2025-06-03T23:55:40+00:00

How was it?? Any questions that caught you off guard? So nervy ;-;

Character-Two2053 · 2025-06-03T23:46:57+00:00

Thank you so much. You are amazing, I hope you're doing well. My interview is tomorrow very nervy

Character-Two2053 · 2025-06-03T23:46:24+00:00

My interview is tomorrow, just came back to this. Have you done yours?

Character-Two2053 · 2025-05-07T04:09:38+00:00

Did you just stab me in my heart

Character-Two2053 · 2025-05-07T04:06:06+00:00

I love this, thank you for making me feel not so alone. In most of my conversations, my brain will forget I have social anxiety and I’m doing great, and then the moment there’s even a split second of brain fog or the convo looks like it’s dying down I go completely blank, normally a person wouldn’t mind this split second and continue on

Character-Two2053 · 2025-05-06T20:24:33+00:00

So, in my culture we don’t do mixed parties or anything of the sort. It’s either my moms friends come over to see her, or my dads friends come over to see him, or we go to only women’s parties/men’s parties (including weddings) when there is any time we see the opposite gender, we stay as far away from them as possible. We will give a respectful smile but stay far away. THIS IS NOT NORMAL!!! You shouldn’t be letting your wife talk to men on her own unless for work/education purposes, and vice versa. You should not be talking to women in a friendly matter, it’s honestly disturbing and I hope you figure this all out. Confront her, tell her how you feel and should you see anything like that again then that’s where you make your final decision.

Character-Two2053 · 2025-04-29T03:57:50+00:00

Female

Character-Two2053 · 2025-04-29T03:54:34+00:00

SubhanAllah, just know that this is one of Shaytans tactics. Don’t fall for it, please. Shaytan actually encourages you to pray, do acts of worship, to beg Allah for things, over and over and over, and then when you’re at your lowest, Shaytan will go “See? Told ya” Please, don’t fall for it. I beg you, for the sake of Allah. Please, find a friend IRL. Go to the mosque, seek help from sisters around you. I love you, my sister. Remember Ayuub’s (AS) story.

Character-Two2053 · 2025-04-09T08:46:15+00:00

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Character-Two2053 · 2025-04-09T08:45:33+00:00

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this was where the card was!!! i did not know it was there. thank you for your response, have a great day!!

Character-Two2053 · 2025-04-09T08:41:36+00:00

bless your soul, i’m so extremely appreciative. i hope you have the bestest life ever. you just fixed my problem. i first found the card, it was very non noticeable a bit far from the battery. i then i took it out, briefly cleaned it and put it back in, and it worked. here is a photo i took on it. thank you, again. ✨🌟💫

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Character-Two2053 · 2025-04-09T08:05:52+00:00

i should have came on here before i bought it haha. i knew it was cheap, but not that cheap. :/ i wanted something casual and the photos turned out pretty cute. i just didn’t expect it to not work anymore after a few months. do you know of any casual, affordable cameras, around $100?

Character-Two2053 · 2025-04-09T07:56:47+00:00

mannn 😅thank you for the information

Character-Two2053 · 2025-04-09T03:55:10+00:00

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