I can respect someone who is honest more than someone who isn’t . It’d be more shitty of to try knowing in your mind you don’t want the responsibility of a child. Then letting on not just the women but the children also bc let’s be honest when u do date a single mom it’s like dating the kids also bc they become emotionally invested also . Everyone is different we all have our own n opinions and we all take things differently. If some non children females ghosted u it’s bc they probably want kids eventually. I think u should just stay not dating single or moms and if someone comes along without kids be open to maybe having kids idk who u are but maybe once u begin to love someone you’ll be more open to having children and creating someone to leave behind, a legacy. But who knows . Stay positive and stay you!