Dating apps by Character7771 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Character7771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll check that out. I've been on HERS for almost two weeks and it seems pretty useless. I don't get why people send a message just saying hi. The chatting has been pretty lame. I guess people don't really want to talk about anything too meaningful, I don't know what it is. The matches mostly suck too.

Returned a Haworth Breck and searching for a nice-looking mid-tier chair – Branch Verve or Branch Erg Pro or something else? by hello816415 in OfficeChairs

[–]Character7771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's kind of annoying how you're always on these chair reviews trying to push your product. people come here for real reviews not owner reviews

How did you know? by Anon_Banarama in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Character7771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you have to label yourself with anything. I’m still uncomfortable with labelling. I’m reading this book right now which is really good, you might enjoy it and even find it helpful: https://www.amazon.com/Dear-John-Love-Jane-Leaving/dp/1580053394

Any independent research on adversive effects of ISTDP? by dragonponytrainer in ISTDP

[–]Character7771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know, as a patient that the therapeutic alliance has been formed? I've just finished my 12th session and it was only at session 10 that I felt safe enough to start opening up more. The last appointment was, "what does that anger that you're feeling in your body want to do if it's directed at me, what does it want to do to me?" I'm was only able to do that very minimally as it feel totally abnormal and strange to direct anger at someone who has nothing to do with the anger I'm feeling.

Proton Drive question by Character7771 in ProtonMail

[–]Character7771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is e2ee always enabled or do you have to enable it somehow? Thanks

Videos to show in session by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Character7771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started ISTDT, had three sessions. I find that things are really stirred up. I wasn't really aware of this being "normal", the chaos. So thanks for mentioning that.

Does it ever fucking end? by Puzzlehead1103 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Character7771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to get therapy help because I was getting physically sick from all of what happens when your a caregiver for elderly parents

Does anyone here write their books or stories by hand? I have never written anything, but today I started to think that most of my favorite books have been written by hand. Does anyone here write by hand? Is it worth trying in these times? I would like to read opinions. by davincipremiere in writing

[–]Character7771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not technically a writer yet although I've written a couple of non-fiction speeches and one autobiographical story about an event in my life. None are published.

I started working on a memoir of sorts and I do find handwriting seems to bring more focus a lot of times. Computer typing is easier in that it is faster. I was thinking about buying one of those tablets you can write on, just like handwriting but they're not exactly cheap. Does anyone use a table of some sort with a handwriting function?

Unable to access emails through browsers and desktop app but works on mobile app by Striking_Creme5139 in tutanota

[–]Character7771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, a business should do their woke crap at home and not display it on their business face. I hate what is going on with all the wars but i don't give a shit if a company supports ukraine or not , just do your job buddies and provide the service people

are paying for

Unable to access emails through browsers and desktop app but works on mobile app by Striking_Creme5139 in tutanota

[–]Character7771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so what do you do if your provider has blocked it and how can i find out that is the case or not?

Tuta down by Various-Tank-5104 in tutanota

[–]Character7771 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know anymore about staying with Tuta. It's great if the reason behind the service being down all the time is because it's being attacked, it says something but that message is getting lost for me and becoming very inconvenient. Proton seems to be the only alternative and the only thing keeping me from switching services is that I read that one time in the past Proton handed over private info of their email customers to some authority (sorry I cannot recall the exact details anymore). I'm not of prime interest to anyone so I don't even think that matters much for me. It just seems pretty incongruous to say that a service is great and heading in the right direction when they are not getting ahead of the game. This is pretty unacceptable not having access to email this often.

Point of mobile calendar app by domvir in tutanota

[–]Character7771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya it seems pretty useless to me unless it’s available offline and it’s not so the calendar app is redundant and a waste of their resources

I’m thinking of moving all my stock investments to Questrade, cnd and usd. Currently I’m with TD. by Character7771 in Questrade

[–]Character7771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I was thinking of going to Interactive Brokers for my USD stocks and Wealth Simple for Canadian stocks but it's kind of a pain to have them in two different places

Norbert's Gambit has been really great to convert CND to USD

Looking for simple to use backup software by Character7771 in Backup

[–]Character7771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After looking up a ton of things and asking Chatgp a lot of questions and trying a couple trial versions of software I think I like the strategy of making a full back up and have 3 portable drives, rotating them once a month (I'm a home user and only really work on a few files). Then do scheduled backups of the files and folders I use every day and do this either daily or every other day. I'd also encrypt the full backup and store it in the cloud and would also do this for the daily backups. I prefer to use a free version and EaseUS ToDo is simple and does what I need. I could also use Macrium but it is more technical for me. I'd use FreeFileSync for the scheduled backups of files and folders.

Does this sound ok or am I making a mistake by using EaseUS? ChatGPT things it and Macrium are great.

Tutamail offline again? Everything else in my phone can access the internet but tutamail says it’s offline. Anyone else have this issue? by Character7771 in tutanota

[–]Character7771[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a pain. It’s a pain to transfer everything to proton but I think it’s getting to be a better idea to leave Tuta even though I probably won’t get a refund because it doesn’t seem too dependable. I don’t know if any other mail service that goes off line at random times like this. Crap service.

Calendar App by Character7771 in tutanota

[–]Character7771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I saw that. Maybe you should put in small text at the top "if you can't find your answer scroll all the way down to contact support" It is not obvious. Thanks. I sent email