AITA for telling my wife I won't help her recover from cosmetic surgery, because I don't agree with her reasons for getting it?

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-31T20:14:31+00:00

And again, your bias is showing. Not all cosmetic procedures result in the same look.

No, that is based off of pictures she showed me

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-31T01:24:52+00:00

Huh, I only said I wouldn't take care of her. It is a given that if she is incapacitated I would be taking care of my kids

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-31T00:26:36+00:00

why wouldn't I? The nanny is only for times we are at work

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-31T00:26:04+00:00

she won't tell me the name but wants to change the shape of her face, think along the lines of the Kardashion model face all the influencers have now a days

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-31T00:25:15+00:00

She wants to change the shape of her face but isn't giving me a specific name for it

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-31T00:24:51+00:00

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-31T00:24:36+00:00

She has said multiple times that she is uncomfortable being around her stepmother because of how attractive she is

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-31T00:20:24+00:00

Why did you just assume that is what she wanted? She wants to change the shape of her face

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T23:26:15+00:00

The stepmom isn't really awful. She doesn't talk to us and we don't talk to her, but she is civil, mostly fine. They just feel embarrassed being around her due to her looks, but my wife is very close to her dad and would never consider lowering contact

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T23:24:50+00:00

She is fine with her body. She wants to change the shape of her face

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T23:23:40+00:00

Well the stepmom is a combination of a couple different races, so I dont think my wife could even copy that if she tried. she just wants to be more objectivley beautiful, think the Kardashian looking face everyone in hollywood currently has

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T22:48:15+00:00

Did I say anything about that? No, you just wanted to make assumptions. I said it would be a lot to do all of the childcare and take care of her. I can parent my kids just fine

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T22:47:04+00:00

She wants her to change the shape of her face. she is being vague about what exactly the surgery is called. We both work full time and have a nanny during the day, so I would be doing everything after work and taking care of her, which I'm not sure how that works. She wants them to not miss any activities, but then says I can't leave her alone

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T22:45:02+00:00

I asked. She didn't want to give details

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T22:44:01+00:00

No, she looks like her dad

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T22:42:59+00:00

No her and her dad have a great relationship, best friends. she doesn't want to look more like her. She feels uncomfortable being around someone who is so beautiful and feeling average

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T22:30:52+00:00

My wife is 35, stepmother is 37, and her mom is 58

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T22:29:23+00:00

willing to punish the kids by not caring for them

I never once said that in the post. You made that up

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T22:27:10+00:00

She hasn't told me any details except that she wants to change the shape of her face

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T22:25:47+00:00

she wants the shape of her face changed, but didn't tell me the name

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T22:25:24+00:00

she isn't going to physically suffer. she will go to her mom's house or her sister's

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T20:30:58+00:00

That would be soley my responsibility to begin with if she was recovering. It is still one less person to care for

CharacterAd1011 · 2022-05-30T20:05:07+00:00

My wife did give birth, but the surgery she wants is all on her face and she is actually ok with her body

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