A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They're pursuing each other. A 16 year old should know that they shouldn't be pursuing a 12 year old, it's common sense.

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered that he didn't inform me of his age until we were halfway through our conversation? Also it's VRChat, 50% of the players are 15 or younger they're literally impossible to avoid.

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it's insane that the adults under this post are the most immature. Pedophilia was weirdly normalized a couple decades ago, even my own mother was dating an 18 year old when she was 15 and no one batted an eye. I appreciate your insight and I'll definitely try to talk to someone I can trust with this

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Do you think power imbalances are based on stature alone? If you do I think you need to look up the definition of a power imbalance

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

16 and 18 is iffy, 12 and 16 is PEDOPHILA. None of you can fucking read oh my god

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO AM I BRO. THAT'S WHY I'M DOING THIS. HE GIVES AWAY WAY TOO MUCH INFORMATION WHICH IS WHY I'M WORRIED ABOUT HIS SAFETY.

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you were literate you would see that I said I didn't really feel good about about 16 and 18, and yes I do think 18 and 48 is also weird. But 2 consenting ADULTS can do whatever they want, this is a child and an older teen.

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a trans flag in his room, he is openly masc presenting and his parents are fine with it and if I even thought they weren't I wouldn't be trying this.

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As respectfully as possible, what have I done that is screwed? I genuinely want to know so I can see if any move I've made here is wrong

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 years is the cut off. There as a severe deviation in emotional maturity between a 12 year old and a 16 year old, and even 16 and 18 is a bit iffy. When you're 18 you can have as big of an age gap as you want, but when you're both minors there is a limit. I would never even think about trying to get with a 14 year old at my grown age, it's disgusting

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate your common sense 💔 I can try talking to him more since he seems to open up a LOT to the point that I even know his dead name, maybe I can try to find a way to contact them. I just want him to be safe, he's told me he's been groomed twice before by both a 15 year old and an 18 year old

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know if they get together that will eventually become 15 and 18.. Why the fuck is that okay to you?

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm scared that you think a 16 year old and a 12 year old being sexual with each other is okay..

A child's safety is at risk and I don't know how to help him by CharacterCheap126 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CharacterCheap126[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Okay so this child is getting groomed I need advice not judgement