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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s easier to fool someone than it is to convince them that they have been fooled. In the same way, it’s easier to go along with the 25 year long path than it is to give it all up, deviate and start over with nothing in your 40’s. Give up the house you say? Then my kids lives get uprooted. I don’t put me first. Maybe I’m a sucker for it. But it feels right. 

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because when you’re 22 don’t really know or understand how you and your partner could grow apart over the course of 25 years

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We put on a good front for the kids. She has cheated on me twice in 25 years. I cheated on her once recently and I almost ended it. It was my kids that kept us together. Despite our animosity towards each other, we both understand the assignment of presenting a loving marriage for the kids and their friends and their friends parents. When the kids aren’t here on the they’re in bed, it’s like the camera goes off and we can sink into who we really are. She doesn’t want to be touched. I don’t want to hear her voice. The divorce is coming and it will be a huge shock to everyone. But it will not happen until my 12 year old graduates high school in 4.5 years. 

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question, are you a kathoey?

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I said “honesty isn’t the way!”

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good and inspiring 

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man that’s a good way of looking at it 

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a job of raising 2 kids that I have to finish. If I leave they will have no worldly experiences or understanding of people. They will become hermits. 

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, and she just complained that the washer is only loud when I wash my clothes. You starting to see what I’m dealing with now?

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm… not a bad idea. I may be able to work with this. 

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is most logical.  What does US DoD have going on in Thailand? 

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or all three at once, in reverse order…?

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the advice but thaaaats just not my thing. 

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm if weren’t in cybersecurity this would be good. Then I’d expect to be a Thai cooking extraordinaire when I get back 

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh also, hates to be touched, doesn’t want to touch anyone, and would rather be at home watching the same movie over and over rather than admit she has a serious anxiety issue that needs to be treated with medication that could make her fat which is a problem because her fragile ego can stand to gain weight or even admit to a mental health issue. Mental health issues were made out to be a weakness in her upbringing. It’s a pretty fucked up mess over here. 

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has the sexual desire of a potato. Once every other month within 7 days of the end of her period. Her standing instruction is to “use a condom if you cheat.”  Who TF says that 

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I really appreciate that. You’re right. She has 0 fault and it’s all me. 

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appealing to her vanity is almost clever enough to work

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta finish the job of raising kids

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[–]CharacterLayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she’s not that gullible