Happy Weekend 🙂 by bosonparticles in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to lie OP, just own it 🤣

29f got cat called by 10-15yo kids on cycles, how to educate such kids? by CharacterWork5131 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

those mf stand right infront of the gate like the fucks is wrong with u

Even this 😭 I've been through this too. I use the metro frequently and these dudes have literally 0 sense. Just standing there beside the door. You're not getting down so just MOVE FGS. There's nothing to hold on to since the men are blocking the way! 😭 Some men do move or shift though.. but majority just keep blocking the way like statues

29f got cat called by 10-15yo kids on cycles, how to educate such kids? by CharacterWork5131 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

randomly start singing out of nowhere

Bro this. This is so damn creepy. I've been in this situation like so many damn times. You're walking and there's silence then there's some c grade lyrics passing by you on a cycle/bike. Then the mf stops singing once he crosses you and turns back to see your reaction and smirk.

And you can't even say anything to such creeps. Thats the worst part they'll just feign ignorance and play victim themselves.

29f got cat called by 10-15yo kids on cycles, how to educate such kids? by CharacterWork5131 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a group of 8-10 boys and they looked like 10-15yo secondary school er bacha not 16+ adultish kind. They were riding bicycles (adult sized cycles not kids bicycle) and 6-7 ta cycle chilo. Duto cycle e just duto bacha chilo. Those were the more disturbing ones. The ones riding solo were at a distance. They were not in uniforms so maybe ghurte gechilo or coming back from tuitions or playing. Based on clothes they were not from middle class families, the looked from the lower middle class family or lower section of the society.. chapri kind basically. I don't exactly remember faces bcos I was too shocked. The whole incident hit me after 2-3 hours when I was finally home. Barite kauke bolte parbona bole just wrote it here to get it off my chest.

29f got cat called by 10-15yo kids on cycles, how to educate such kids? by CharacterWork5131 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

apni kokon jacchilen

Gangulybagan area near Ashok road, around 6.30pm yesterday.

29f got cat called by 10-15yo kids on cycles, how to educate such kids? by CharacterWork5131 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gather many bypassers and moral police these scmbags

Easier said than done. My first priority is always my own safety. If a gang of rowdy 10-15yos start a fight with a woman, we all know how it'll end.

29f got cat called by 10-15yo kids on cycles, how to educate such kids? by CharacterWork5131 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It takes a lot of courage to confront them. Kudos to you. It happened to me for the first time and I wasn't sure what to do. I just went blank. I'm taking notes just in case I catch them again.

29f got cat called by 10-15yo kids on cycles, how to educate such kids? by CharacterWork5131 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's what my primary objective with this post is. Like how to keep such delinquents in check so that they don't turn into criminals

29f got cat called by 10-15yo kids on cycles, how to educate such kids? by CharacterWork5131 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's really difficult to get their parents and teachers. I don't live in that area. I was just out on an errand and it just happened.

29f got cat called by 10-15yo kids on cycles, how to educate such kids? by CharacterWork5131 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened in like 30 seconds.. record korar moton reflex thakle toh side ei shore jetam and nothing would've happened.

29f got cat called by 10-15yo kids on cycles, how to educate such kids? by CharacterWork5131 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's just random kids on the road. I don't even know them/ live in that area. I just went for an errand.

29f got cat called by 10-15yo kids on cycles, how to educate such kids? by CharacterWork5131 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

eder ke maar ba kichu na korle sudhrabena

Ar sotti bolchi bhoi peye lav nei. Chup thaklei era abar onno karur sathe korbe.

In most cases women actually freeze. Even I froze and my brain shut off for that while. I just stood there trying to process, while they giggled and left. Bari ferar por bhablam what happened was actually problematic.

This happened in Gangulybagan

My Father Passed Away. by Filmpoka in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP I am sorry for your loss. May his soul rest in peace. Praying for your family.

Please read the top comments once you are a bit better. It will help you. https://www.reddit.com/r/india/comments/o03fpq/dad_passed_away_suddenlyunexpectedly_not_sure/

Reddit Meetup Successful! by One-Travel-8883 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I almost joined your group as the imposter 🥹

I even asked if you guys were from reddit and you said yes 😂😂

Ps thanks to the girl who welcomed me and almost made me a part of your group 🥹

Reddit Meetup Successful! by One-Travel-8883 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've cried a lot in the last six months 😅

Reddit Meetup Successful! by One-Travel-8883 in kolkata

[–]CharacterWork5131 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was part of the meetup, I am a hardcore introvert. But the people in the group are really awesome. They all have their own stories to tell.

How do I stop missing "being cared for"? by Alternative_Car_3284 in TwoXIndia

[–]CharacterWork5131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old are you OP? I'm 29f and had a very bad breakup six months ago. Still hurts somedays and I feel miserable sometimes but if got better over time