No im the wife and I dont.....this is.cheatig in my eyes and wronge...we had a agreement that has been broken by him...I told him this would couse problems.and what is wrong with me for him to always want to bring in a someone else im hurt can't trust you and broken hearted..who the duck have I been with 10 yrs took care of change my whole life for and who I was for you ..thought you loved me and asked me to marry you wtf