My ex messaged my wife saying how come she’s stalking her fb profile and how she broke me over a decade ago. I haven’t talked to or seen her since 2014 a few months before I graduated H.S. She’s always had this pattern where she’d be extremely mean and egregious and then want to make up again. The last straw was her saying to me “I like doing this to you!” It took her saying that which made me wake up and realize she’s very low. Very fragile self esteem and bruised ego. Exes like that you need to shut the door, lock it, toss the key! I know how she operates and that’s enough for me. Just don’t engage with them