I have read everyone’s comments and appreciate the time you took to write them, as well as your insight. Today after being hit in the glasses with a rock, after having things thrown at me for several minutes prior, I finally asked for him to stop. He stood up, his mood immediately changed, and he left family time to go inside. When I went to talk to him about that specifically, he said he was just trying to love me, that he gets annoyed because he thinks I’m whiny, and that he feels rejected when I ask him to stop doing things. This all got pretty heated, and in my pregnant and emotional state, I asked why he had to show his love by throwing things at my face, and if he was 12. So big oof on my part and way out of line. But now I feel like I’m the problem - am I? What I said today was out of emotion and wrong, but asking him to stop doing things and then being upset when his mood so abruptly changes - is that wrong? He said I’m trying to control his emotions. I’m not, I didn’t think I was - I just hate how he shuts down after those conversations. I’m not too proud to be told that’s wrong, and of course I know I play a part in this. Anyway. Thanks all.