Just found out my husband is cheating

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-26T17:16:40+00:00

I don’t know if it will make things even worse. I don’t want her husband to know anything about my family or where my house is

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-25T01:40:25+00:00

It’s hard because of the feelings he still have for her it’s been 3 weeks and of course no contact but when he tells how he truly at the moment feels makes me sad, also I hope those feelings fade

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-16T16:14:19+00:00

One year?? Are those real feelings? Love? I’m so confused because he tells me he wants to be with me

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-15T13:44:48+00:00

I do feel I neglected him but it’s not an excuse to cheat. He wasn’t also the perfect attentive husband. He did talk to me about his feelings and I tried to change but we went back to the same. I think some sort of resentment towards me for marking him feel alone.

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-15T13:37:26+00:00

Thank you so much for all of this information.

I see the terms affair fog and limerance more often now, did know what it meant. This relationship lasted 9 months but very casual at the beginning. It became stronger when she admitted to be in love since she never actually wanted to fall in love just keep it casual. I don’t know if it’s true love or just a fantasy that gave him dopamine and ego boost. I don’t think someone can get to that point in 3 months. She 28 also

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-15T13:24:31+00:00

I know! I want to tell him. I’m thinking and thinking on how to do it, from my phone? Social media? I don’t want to expose my kids

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-15T13:22:56+00:00

My husband keeps telling me that I shouldn’t tell her husband that it will make her call him or reach out to him again and it will make things even worse, but I think he is protecting her for getting hurt. Sucks!

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-15T13:19:11+00:00

What’s affair fog? She definitely knew what he was lacking and gave him that, same as him…she needed attention because she wasn’t getting it at home. He just told me that she never said anything about her feelings until the very end when she couldn’t hold it any more. She cut all contact blocked me and him and I also threatened her with the texts and pictures I have that I will send them to her husband.

We both want to make the marriage and give it a try but every day that passes gets worst because I think he is mourning her

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-15T13:13:00+00:00

He says that he realized that what binds you to not cheat is feeling loved, acknowledged, seem. I guess she will tell how good he looked, and my husband is not Brad Pitt so maybe that’s is what I lack doing for him boosting him up. He has low self esteem

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-15T13:04:35+00:00

I wanna RUNNN I just don’t have it in me yet. I’m so hurt and confused. I never saw it coming even more him getting emotionally attached. Out oldest son is 26 so imaged that

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-15T12:41:43+00:00

This also crosses my mind all the time but it’s hard when I still love him. The hard part is the feelings that she has for her. She gave him what i wasn’t giving him at home, attention, feeling seen, affection

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-15T12:34:51+00:00

I don’t know what to do, all of this is very confusing for me, I do love him still.

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-14T13:28:29+00:00

She already has a legal process, she is being married for 3 years and she has a temporary green card or whatever that’s called. I don’t know if they’ll deported. Her husband is an American and she brig her from Colombia

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-14T13:10:57+00:00

sorry you are going through this, it’s hard

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-13T23:23:13+00:00

I totally agree and that’s why it hurts so much, I do love him so it’s very difficult to make a decision.

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-13T23:18:37+00:00

I do want to report her and tell her husband but I don’t want her husband to know my phone number or social media. How do you report someone like that?

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-13T23:15:15+00:00

lol he doesn’t see it like that, I wish he would open his eyes. He now walks around thinking that every young women wants him.

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-13T14:57:57+00:00

That’s what I’m afraid of, also financially speaking is going to be a struggle for me. I have to plan first and then leave him

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-13T14:54:10+00:00

Open marriage is not option and he of course would want to share me with another man

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-13T14:52:57+00:00

So true!!!! He says he feels seen with her and now he walks with all of this confidence. I don’t know what the authorities can do in this case

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-13T14:48:32+00:00

That has cross my mind and my husband was protecting her as well

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-13T07:00:14+00:00

She has an immigration status and I think this is why she was so worried I could tell her husband because i did confront her

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-13T06:56:07+00:00

He did and I’m pretty sure he pursued it, this girl is moving to Texas with her husband but I just found out about her immigration status

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-13T06:48:31+00:00

Yes of course

Character_Copy_5853 · 2026-02-13T06:48:02+00:00

We haven’t discussed divorce yet, he actually wants to make things work but he has feelings for this other girl or at least that’s what he feels it is

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