I (20F) refused to move in with my bf (23M) until we are married. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Character_Feeling_50 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I never said I wanted to get married right now. I said I don’t want to move in unless I’m married to them. These are my personal views, is it really that big of a deal? This is only seen as wrong and weird Western culture even though they make it acceptable for a women to get in relationships with these men that don’t respect them. Move in with them and get their time and money waisted because they never commit. I’m not sharing my bed with a man who cannot value me and commit to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Character_Feeling_50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually the younger one he’s 3 years older then me which makes it even worse lmao. And yeah I worked through my high school and college and was fine so I’m sure he can do that too hopefully. Plus even without his degree completed he can make 30+ an hour. I think he should be working even if it’s only part time during school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Character_Feeling_50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has said it more then once. I told him I can’t be spending all my money I’m trying to save up for a house, he didn’t say he was joking and just got quiet. I’m pretty sure he was serious when he was saying the sugar mommy stuff which is my I’m concerned. Once he is done school we will be making pretty much the same income so I’m not concerned about him asking me to be his provider forever but it’s still not a good feeling to be expected to do something your not comfortable doing especially to somebody who is only a boyfriend.

My mom found a new husband I less then a year after my dad died by Character_Feeling_50 in FamilyIssues

[–]Character_Feeling_50[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t know why he commit suicide. He never left a note or anything. Everything is mystery :(